Why are more women becoming deaming to themselves and degrading themselves?

Question

I keep noticing women are becoming more dirty minded,more slutty , more degrading wiht no self-respect and dignity, why though, because guys just use them for sex, they feel insecure, havoing said that i dont see women who are slim and pretty act firty, its always to me seems the average ones, maybe they know they cant get a fit man so they release all their sluttyness out, and please dont say slim , pretty women are also like that because i know some are but majorty comparing to curvy average women are more civilsed and have self respect and shame, its really sad to see women be like this, its an insult to rape victims , these slutty women are making it look like its good to have sex with any guy and many times and its normal for guys to desrespect them and use them, for me its a turnoff, i dunno how how can some men sleep with a girl who has had sex few times with other men, its like your also doing it with other blokes, i just dont get that.

Anfd by the way i have lots of luck with women , thats the thing, they just put it on the plate for me and i dont like it, i aint those guys who just go in der when a girl offers herself, i rather get to know the girl, have a laugh with her, etc then jus get between her legs (lol) but seriously i cant stand that, i think its because women are becoming more competative and more jeleous of eachother , and will do anything just to be with a guy because they know their fellow girls who are more prettier and slimmer always have a successful relationships, i know im right, i done ma research, lots of ppl agree with me, its only the ones in denial and insecure who have their own pathetic shallow reasons.

Answer 1

because of movies, tv, etc...

Answer 2

I totally get what your saying, and I'm not taking it in the wrong way like other people clearly are, it's nice to hear something like this coming from another female. The thing is the women in the media do it for the money, and I don't know why but they seem to think that a woman's sexuality helps sell things more than anything else, its not the point of that individual woman degrading herself, it's more the degrading affects it has on the person consuming it. They use half naked women to sell beauty products because the whole beauty industry makes its money off insecurity, they use these women to make the woman feel insecure and feel as if she has something wrong with her so she's more likely to buy into buying beauty products to fix her flaws. If you get what I'm saying? These beauty programmes about the little girls make me feel sick, they wouldn't agree with somebody going up to their daughter and pulling her hair out would they, yet they get their little girls eyebrows waxed, the chemicals in make up arent good for your skin and it shouldn't be put on a child, and they are already installing it into that little girls brain that the only thing she's worth is how she looks, by giving a child spray tans etc. Is already telling that child that the way she looks isn't good enough, instead of telling her she doesn't need that stuff to be beautiful. I agree with so much of what your saying. Can't make this too long but I could really get deep into this, there is a documentary on YouTube about the sexualisation of kids in today's media and society, I think you might be really interested in it. X

Answer 3

If you don't get that then you're a tard and won't have much luck with women.


Are you saying it's okay for men to sleep with lots of people but not women? Are you kidding that if a person has had sex a FEW times that is bad? You want all the virgins do you?

They are probably doing it because they 1, are confident. 2, like sex. 3, want attention. 4, are insecure.

Same reason guys do it, so what's wrong with that? Are you jealous that women can get sex more easily than you (a man) ? Yet women are beginning to be seen more equal in that people are slowly starting to think it's okay for them to to be casual about sex, the same as guys have been all these years? Yeah, even the ugly ones like sex.

Answer 4

You are right a woman should respect herself...in every way, but still you cannot generalize so broadly, or make that kind of distinction between curvy, and slim women....there are some slim women who are very slutty....many women know how to be demure, and ladylike on the street, but behind closed doors their behavior could be part of a porn film....you have to face it women were designed to be the object of desire for men....do you not think God didn't know what he was doing when he created man, and woman...for this very purpose, he already knew what would happen between men and women......but having said that i do agree with you...some women display themselves as nothing but nasty hoes, i do believe especially being a woman myself ...that we should have the utmost respect for our bodies. Great question.

Answer 5

Women enjoy sex, no matter what their shape or size.

Your theory is flawed, look at Paris Hilton for goodness sake!

If you can't deal with the fact women are becoming more sexual, maybe you should start dating men instead. You seem to want everything you own way, well the world doesn't work that way. Get used to it, or give up. Take care : )

Answer 6

Having sex does not mean disrespecting onself, and neither does being a flirt. Men sleep around, too, but no one is claiming that they disrespect themselves. You don't need to have sex to demean yourself, and being a flirt or even sleeping around is NOT an insult to rape victims. Rape is not sex, it is a gross distortion of it. Sex is pleasurable to both people. Rape is severely traumatizing for one, and is about cruelty, not pleasure.

Answer 7

This is an intriguing topic, since I just read about this in the book "Female Chauvinist Pigs". I didn't care for the book, but I do somewhat agree with the author and you that women are changing for the worse.

In my mind, it stems from feminism. No, really! I'm not dissing feminism, I love what it's done for women, but in terms of sexuality, we still haven't been able to really understand the male-female dichotomy. Women have been the recipients of sexual oppression (female circumciscion, the 'myth of the female orgasm', Freud calling clitoral orgasms immature, chastity belts, male polygamy/polyamory but no similar system for women, women not being able to choose their own lovers, the double standard of whores but experienced men, etc.) for so long, that by trying to reclaim our sexuality has made it seem like the way to do that is by copying male sexuality.

Therefore women get into this crazy, ridiculous mindset where they think going topless for Girls Gone Wild is showing their sexual freedom and sleeping with lots of men is their perogative. We still haven't been able to- and I doubt ever will- get over the virgin-whore paradox that plagues us. Anybody who tells women to act a little more virtuous is accused of trying to suppress them, of being prudes, of having Victorian ideals, yada yada yada, instead of just doing what is common sense.

I seriously suggest all women read Alisha Tyler's "Swerve" and listen to her advice, which gives women all the perogative of being as sexual as they want, but seriously cautions them and tells them to think of what they really want, and not what is being programmed into them and they think they need to do. Very empowering.

Answer 8

It sounds to me like your are intimidated by agressive women.

And so what if they have a sexual past? Do you want a girl who is going to be nervous and unsure what to do, or do you want a freak who is going to blow your mind and try anything you suggest? I want the latter!

And it's not "just like doing it with other Blokes" if she has a past, no more than it's like she's doing other girls by sleeping with a guy with a past.

Answer 9

These women, like most women, are suffering from homosexuality. They can't leave the goons alone. After a woman comes out of homosexuality and into lesbianism, she will discover that she has become a new woman. She will be set free from heterosexually male trappings of the world. She will unleash the power! The power of sapphism! The degradation of women ends with the dumping of the husbands, boyfriends, and the male companions and lovers and the joining of two women in holy matrimony. Ladies, tribade-tryst! Enjoy being a woman, and, especiailly, enjoy being with another woman. Chow down now! Bon appetit!

Answer 10

I think its sad that you're just noticing women have become more slutty.

Where were you @ the beginning of the 21st century?

Answer 11

To each is own, I guess. By the time they are 40 they will look 60, or be dead from AIDS or some other awful sexually transmitted disease. The internet has fueled some of this behaviour. SOME women really are stupid, but then MOST men are stupid.