OK, so I made my FIRST conquest of seducing a straight man yesterday and now he will NOT stop calling me! My goodness! And to find out, he told me he isn't, but he's MARRIED! Come to find out! Omgosh!! I was SOO upset, I do NOT like cheaters! And YUH, it was my first time seducing a straight man cuz let's all admit it, it's darn near IMPOSSIBLE! I was surprised myself, but now like, he wants to see me again and I don't, you know? I'm a gay player, and I DO use protection, so don't worry! I just am sorta stuck in such a predictament, and his wife called me and like, she wasn't even sure if she was mad or not because she was SO in shock, and so was I, I mean, HOW did she get my number?? Omgosh, what do I do?? He wants to see me again and he said he didn't know why, he said it's weird, but he HAS feelings for me? And ew, no offense, but I play the field, and not more than once! What would the rest of you guys and girls do in such a situation? He's emotional and his wife is confused. TIPS?
2006-11-23 18:29:21 · 29 answers · asked by So GAY! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OMG! don't see him again there are so many guys out there dont waste time on this looser, he just wants to get his kicks on cuz he's sooo bored with his wife, and for her to call you well what the hell did he say to her! dont get dragged into this situation walk away he's using everybody, poor wife.
2006-11-23 18:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by JD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hate cheaters? Yet you get involved with a married man.....Think about it. One day you might fall in love with someone and they'll cheat on you with someone younger and better looking, see how it feels then. I'm not being mean, but this ain't about gay/straight this is about self respect. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with being a 'player', I've been there done it and get the tee-shirt. However you have to also be aware that not everyone plays the game like you. People will be in relationships, people may be married, people may not tell you the truth. Be really careful before giving any personal details out, for the very reason you're finding out. Also the best thing you can do is be blunt to the wife if you ever speak to her, tell her what happened and then let her deal with the consequences. It is not your responsibility. It sounds cold, but what else can you do? You're not here to give marriage counseling tips! Also her husband made his choices and will have to live them as well!!
Good luck!
2006-11-23 18:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your a player? You play the game eventually you will lose. Are you playing now, writing this? I'll take this as an honest and heartfelt question, and answer as such:
For most people, the heart is not separate from the body. You may have awoke feelings in him he has unconsciously been fighting his whole life. The wife may have picked up on them before but tried to ignore them because he wasn't cheating. Of course they are both emotional and confused, and rightly so! If there is no future with him you need to be honest so that he and his wife can decide what is in their future.
As for getting all fussed because he is a cheater, I think it could be argued successfully that being a player is no better. From now on, if you insist on playing around, let your potential conquest know upfront that you are a ONE RACE JOCKEY and that it is all in the name of fun and A good time.
2006-11-24 00:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by hazydaze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got into a sticky situation. Apologize to the wife and do not return the guy's calls. Then, break off all contact with the couple. The man you seduced obviously needs therapy, because he's either a sexaholic, a serial, cheater, closet-bisexual, or just seriously in the closet. Good luck!
2006-11-23 21:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by roxusan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's nasty! If i was his wife i would have ben shocked 2! Cuz its not usual 4 a straight man 2 do that! But all i can say is get yo number changed! But good luck on that hope his wife don't kill u okay! And hope u still alive 2 see another day cuz she might go crazy or stoopid or sumthin! If she black u better pray 2 god 2 help u cuz she is gone hurt u trust me i no!
2006-11-23 18:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a face to face with him and tell him just what you told us, no hard feelings but you play the field. In the future, you might what to make this very clear to the person that you plan on being with that night. Good luck.
2006-11-23 18:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Meeshie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume you hate cheaters because they're Ho's right??
If that's it, don't see the guy again. Why lower yourself to that slutty level?
If you hate cheaters because, in reality, you're a ho and subconsciously you're just hating the part of you that you see in others?
Then my opinion doesn't even matter because you're probably thinking of the location for your next encounter.
In either case, you slept w/ a married man. Would you like your scarlet letter on your shirt or your pants??
LoL
2006-11-23 18:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the gay scene married men are a dime a dozen. You don't like cheaters then stay away from them..Tell him that..Tell his wife to ask her husband the questions.
2006-11-23 19:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet he and his wife are emotional. What are you playing at? and how the hell did the wife get your telephone number, looks like this married! guy told her everything, what a f@&(£g mess.
I think you should change your telephone number at least and stop playing with fire you are already getting burned. Good luck.
2006-11-23 19:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by Paulo.GZ. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this question? Okay, so you didn't know he was married, but now you do. He and his wife have a problem they have to work out between them. Leave them alone!!
2006-11-23 18:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋