everyone said your really mature but your counselor said your really immature? i got insulted by that and dont want to go back, but my dad is making me. im thinking of faking sick so i dont have to go.
2006-11-23 18:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
faking sick eh? yeah real mature
2006-11-23 18:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How is faking sick to avoid the counselor and hiding it from your dad is mature? Go back there and ask this counselor why he thinks you are immature. Be calm and patience of his answers and listen to him, You don't have to do what his says because it is your decision to do what ever you want. Something tells me your dad is concerned about you for some unknown reason and you should ask him why he wants you to go to this counselor and tell him what he said that one day and may be he will pull you out of it because of what the counselor said. Someone not giving you any answers why are you have to see this counselor. If you do see him, make sure you are in the public eye like in a cafeteria area and during school hours and not behind closed doors. I really don't trust this counselor actions. Good luck.
2006-11-24 02:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are mature in different aspects then the one discussed with your counselor. Maybe the way you behaved or articulated yourself was in an immature manner. The fact that you were insulted and want to play sick is showing a definite lack of maturity. A mature rational person would question why and grow from it.
2006-11-24 02:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes, we get so good at hiding our real nature and problems that we do not realize it ourselves. It happened to me too, yesterday when my psychiatrist told me that being an only child, I tend to be angry, sad and all frustrated, when anything happens that is against my will. I was hurt because I look up to myself as a very accomodating person, trying to get along well with everyone and care for everyone's feelings, often acting as a mediator between them, except when I start feeling that they are taking them for granted. But I plan to go back and do a bit of probing myself to understand what led him to think 'that' about me and perhaps, I cannot point out that we keep so private that we think that it does not exist. Perhaps there is some 'immaturity' that makes you hurt youself, push you into depression but you try to put up a practical face for everyone. That could have become a defense mechanism with you. I will suggest you to go back and ask him what made him think so. What if he commented like this because he wanted to see what makes you tick off/angry or what is your fear and how you cope with something that makes you feel really bad? You know most of the sessions with the psychiatrists is actually to find out the hiddenmost fear or trait of yours that is troubling you. So, go to him. Tell him that you were hurt and didn't want to come back at first. But you forced yourself to because you really want to be helped. Cooperate with him to solve your problem.
2006-11-24 02:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would go and face the accuser. The only way to beat the demon is to face him. In this case you are being called out and you either put up or shut up in this matter. It will only show weakness and insecurity if you do not face this counselor.Prove them wrong within yourself. That is the only way you will win
2006-11-24 02:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i would say give it another try. older people tend to tell younger ppl they're immature but we still kids at heart lol so tell her ur sshyt and let her deal with it lolol
2006-11-24 02:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by trouble_jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha! a counseler told you that? what a butthead!
2006-11-24 02:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Erikawithasmile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋