would u marry a homosexual man who has all the qualities you've been lookingfor in a man(and you both get on really well and he DoeS wanna marry you too...) ---BuT ofcourse there's the little hitch that he's attracted to men... would ya...?
2006-11-23 18:05:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, never. Attraction is a major part of any relationship especially marriage.
2006-11-23 18:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lil' Bossy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is about Love, Respect, Trust and Honestly
Its not about getting along with someone. Its not just cuz you want to or because you have some qualities.
You didn't mention that you loved her or where attracted to her. With that , I would say no. You need to be with the one you feel for deep inside not the one you get along with..
No matter what, if and when a marriage ends. its forgotten that it was an arrangement or contract or whatever, all that gets thrown out and you both will feel the pain and be hurt.
2006-11-23 18:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it would depend on the arrangement, and in what situation I was in at the time. If it was a marriage of "convenience" for both parties, and both parties went in with their eyes wide open, Maybe. And if it was an "open" marriage, possibly (sex with other parties but not with each other) Sound like a real s l u t here! But you asked!
For instance, if you were in this marriage able to become financially more secure, are not interested in a relationship anyway, and you really LIKE this man, why not. You are after all both adults I would presume.
In my situation - no way. But once again, it would depend on a particular situation. Different strokes for different folks and all that!
2006-11-23 18:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, what would be the point? I am independent financially because I work, so I can look after myself, I don't need a man to pay the way for me. I would rather be single with a house full of cats than be in a marriage like that.
2006-11-23 18:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a gay friend that has asked me that he's like lets make a pact if we dont' find the ones we want in a certain time of age in our life will you marry me and just be a friend partner .. For me thats not feasable as I love to be loved. but there are many women i have read on here that don't like to have sex iwith there husbands they dont' mind cooking cleaning and having a companion to pay the bills but they dont' want sex. and some have said they be happy if they never had to have sex again. so in that case if you could find a woman like that you'd have it made you'd fgive her what she needed as a comp;anion and you would have a woman like a wife in most ways except one and the public or anyone you dont' want to know your gay would not catch on. Hollywood does it all the time.
Good luck
2006-11-23 19:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck NO,I would not marry him..Not in less your gay too.Because you will just have a lot of problems threw out your marriage.This is NOT a good thing to do.And I think you know this already,or you would not even ask the question you asked!
2006-11-23 18:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by quietthoughts777 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way, I wouldn't marry someone that wasn't truly in love with me. And if he's gay he's not. A marriage is supposed to be between 2 people that love each other and want no others.
2006-11-23 18:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, why would you put yourself through that. You want to be able to give your husband everything mind, body and soul and for him to give the same back to you. If your husband likes you, but if he is giving his lovin' to men instead of you...hell no!
2006-11-23 19:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry him, not because he's homosexual but because of the fact that he will always want someone else.
2006-11-23 18:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by jdhs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good question!! i possibly would, but the marriage would'nt be consummated cos i couldnt sleep with a man who slept with other men. Probably leave it as good friends
2006-11-23 18:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by tizzy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋