I have a sexual issue?

Question

I am struggelign with an addiction to Masturbation. I have tried to stop but I cant seem to quit. its not like I can go to AA. any ideas.

Answer 1

Actually, I think that "thing" is just normal mostly to men like you.. But doing it too often is not that good. Beacuse anything you do that is beyond the normal is not good. Why? Because it affects you a lot.. I know you won't ask this question if you are not affected in any aspect. I know that you are getting worried in your behavior. I think you have to try to focus yourself on other things. Try to keep yourself busy in anything that can boost your mental and moral behavior. Like joining a youth-oriented group, if you are still a youth, that has the goal to be helpful in society. Or if you are already working, try to do something that will enhanced your knowledge for the job you have.. Don't just waste your time thinking of "things" that won't help you be a good person.. I know you are a good person that's why you can realize that you are already doing things that is beyond the limit.. Always think of good things. Don't just waste your time and energy inside your room imagining of anything without so much sense.. Use your time and energy wisely...

Answer 2

Masturbation Frequency:
http://www.jackinworld.com/misc/faqtree1.html#mastfreq

How often does the average male masturbate?
It depends on a lot of factors, the most important being age. For an 18-year-old male, a rough average is once a day or so. This is slightly higher for younger teenagers — maybe 10 or 12 times a week, and slightly lower for older people. You might be surprised by how often adult men masturbate — even happily married men.

I think I'm addicted to masturbation. Is that possible?
It is, although many, many people think they're addicted when they're really just doing what comes naturally. For more on this topic, read the article Is Masturbation Addictive?(http://www.jackinworld.com/library/articles/addict.html).

How can I masturbate less often, or quit altogether?
It's tough; it takes a lot of will power. It can be done, especially if you're driven by very strong religious feelings. However, JackinWorld's position is that it's not worth it. We think you should enjoy the harmless pleasures your body can provide.

Answer 3

What seems to be the problem? Is the masturbation interfering with work, school or other responsibilities? If it's not getting in the way of something important ...it probably really isn't a problem.

But if you think ... it's a selfish act. You only benefit yourself and nobody else by masturbating. Sex is meant for 2 people not one. That is the natural way of life. Whenever you masturbate, your only having sex by yourself.

OK ... Think how it starts. Masturbation starts with a fantasy of a sex object. When your mind goes in that direction ...don't dwell there. Think about something else.

In the book Science of Breath available free at (copy and paste the following link:

http://www.arfalfa.com/ScienceOfBreath/ScienceBreath.htm

Near the end of this book there is a breathing exercise to raise the energy from the sexual centers to the higher centers within the body. It's reported that when using this exercise interest in sex has dropped dramatically.

Answer 4

I find your question hilarious. Brings back fond memories.

It's like a toy to play it.. You gonna need time to calm down and cool off. you've got to pray and if you're sincere & really want to quit, Jesus will help you.

You must be a teenager, Huh? It figures. your dick is giving you a hard time. These are the best years of your life.

Read the Bible, pray and try to keep those hands busy with other activities.

Answer 5

This sounds very stressful. have you ever talked to him touching directly to to the way him asserting those matters makes you adventure? in all probability the ordinary public of girls can not have an orgasm in basic terms from penetration. i might wager that endless the ladies folk he's understand who supposedly could have been faking it. Hormonal delivery administration can furnish approximately vaginal dryness. regardless of if this is rather no longer inflicting you any soreness you could in basic terms use a lubricant. Astro-flow works nicely (as quickly as you're centers to yeast infections use the glyerol/paraben loose version). If he would not like the theory of using a lubricant possibly you could sell him on attempting KY form's new "stimulating" lubricants.

Answer 6

Are u doing it b/c you need the release or are u just horny? If your just horny get it good, if you feel like your vagina is always right there at the verge of orgasm and you want that feeling to go away then see your doctor.

Answer 7

Get a girl friend or when ever you get the urge punch or inflict pain to your self to make the urge go away.

Answer 8

i really dont think its that big of a deal. but what i found that could help me was getting a girlfriend/boyfriend. if u start getting farther then you wont need to masturbate

Answer 9

Things could be worse.

As long as you're not hurting anyone, if that is the worst thing you are dealing with in your life - you are doing pretty darn good.

Answer 10

Masterbate...as long as yer not doing it in public....its not hurting you or anyone else right? I mean...if ya wanna stop...then stop..should prolly see a therapist..otherwise....keep choking the chicken.