Men who will desert,abandon,turn is back on his own flesh and blood would not for one moment, think twice about using,abusing,disrespecting,abandoning you! These men should be ignored like they donot exzist!Shunned like they did there children!They really should go to jail, be publicly humiliated and left for the vultures! They serve no purpose if they cannot fulfill there duty to there children! They have zero integrety! And to sleep with them is criminal.Those of you in a relationship with one of these should RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!
2006-11-23 17:15:41 · 10 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't disagree with your opinion of the deadbeats, but you are being too easy on the ladies that date them. The woman that is knowingly involved with the deadbeat IS scum also.
2006-11-24 00:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can share this with them:
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-24 03:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you've been hurt haven't you? I agree that the ones that walk out on kids that they AGREED to have are low lives, but the guys that have become dads by "accident", deserve to be at least given the chance to tell their side of the story. Some women DO get pregnant behind their lovers backs, even if the man in question has said he doesn't want children. You shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush.
2006-11-24 01:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can be certain that the woman who is currently with the
dead beat dad had not been given the full truth of the matter by
said dead beat...
2006-11-24 01:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am lost to help you here.
All I read is someone who is very bitter and has a very reserved judgement on some man??
Why are you so angry and please tell us the question so we might be able to help??
Is this about abuse??
Husband Abuse??
Or what??
Cheating husband cant be because its something to do with a man who turns his back on his kids??
BUT WHO??
More info required to help you.
Best of luck
2006-11-24 01:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your typing you have been hurt very bad by a man and from your typing there are children involved . dsont judge all men by who ever hurt you you can if you want to talk about this contact me at this e_mail adress ok. the_silverfoxx@yahoo.com
2006-11-24 01:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey the same gos for women. I have custody of my son and he has not seen her for 9 years. You said it bro. But to me the opposite sex.
2006-11-24 01:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! A little bitter aren't we? You sound like a very harsh and jjudgemental person.I guess you're perfect eh?I wouldn't sleep with you anyway for fear that it wouldn't be good enough for you.
2006-11-24 01:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW, you really are bitter. you left out give them the death penalty!! (sarcasm)
2006-11-24 01:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
SOOOOOO, What is your question??????
2006-11-24 01:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋