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How can I change who I am into something that is more productive and ensure that I'll stay this way forever?

2006-11-23 16:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by demiser55 3 in Social Science Psychology

14 answers

Nothing lasts, change is constant... you don't even exist.

2006-11-23 17:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0 1

It depends on you. If you think you can, you can. Plan accordingly. Hold yourself accountable. Don't shame yourself for your sidesteps. And pick yourself up and keep going if you fall down.
Get a life coach - someone with a proven record of helping individuals achieve their goals.
If you want to consider yourself "productive" forever, define what productive means to you first. Working? Married? Ambulatory?
Can any of these things be forever? No. Because they involve factors and circumstances out of our control. But our mindset is our own, and that we can control that for a very long time. Meditate. And do it for real. Not just as a fad.
We only change when the pain of changing is less than the pain of remaining the same.

2006-11-24 01:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

First you have to take a long hard in depth look at who you are why you are that way want it is you want to change about yourself and why. This is not something that could or should be done on a whim or for some one other than yourself. Changing yourself for another person is losing your identity to be something you probably wont like or regret doing in years to come. I know yadda yadda yadda....but I have been there done that and ended up with nothing but contempt for the person(s) I wanted so much to please, and later found I could never please them no matter what I did.
Then, you need to figure out how to attain what it is you want to change. Like being more productive...productive at what? Okay being productive in a scholastic way would require setting aside more time to study. A better way to do so. For example how to improve your comprehension level . Okay there are different ways do do that. What worked best for you. I downloaded a program called Eyeq for my son, it's on the computer has adult and child activities and has different activities other that read-test-evaluate-read-test-evaluate. That is what works for him. Then, you need to assess your weaknesses what distracts you from study. Eliminate it. Evaluate, plan, assess, eliminate and attain

2006-11-24 01:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 0 0

You have to have a strong conviction in yourself and believe in what you're doing no matter what people say. You need to take a look into yourself and ask yourself, what do I really exactly want for my life?
Don't be afraid to make mistakes cuz mistakes are needed for you to know who you really are. Taking risks as well is important cuz sometimes you really need to hit the dirt to move forward.

Just be true to yourself and as long as I can remember the one lesson that you could learn from your past is there is nothing I mean nothing in this world that you cannot achieve. If you keep on going and put your mind in something then you can achieve anything.....

2006-11-24 01:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Start with the simple things like changing your underwear and socks daily. Don't wear the same pair of shoes two days in a row. Get a job even though you think McDonald's is beneath your dignity. Stop arguing with your mother. Take out the trash and clean up your room. And hang up your clothes. Oh, and one more thing, stop spending all your time on Yahoo Answers.

2006-11-24 01:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0 0

Busyness or fruitfulness—that is the question… Is your life full of meaningful accomplishments or just busy activities?

i think that if u increase the quality of what u do u'll feel more productive. u can still do the same amount of things as what u do now, but by doing things that have a greater impact and that r long-lasting ull feel that ur more productive...

2006-11-24 01:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by allemapstieks 2 · 2 0

U won't change until you bet your life into something, don't wait for challenges to come but take or create something chalengging for urself. e.g if U cross ocean with a ship and U arrive at an island, U want to develope the Island into something, first thing U must do is burn the ship.

2006-11-24 01:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by sly r 2 · 0 0

enlist in the United States Marine Corps

guarantees change

2006-11-24 02:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Balls 3 · 0 0

nothing in life is constant, it changes
how to change life - is it possible.
u can only change the life style
see business is important
BUT LIFE is MOOOOOOOOOOOORE important
how much richer you r when u grow up u jus cant even buy a single second after u dead or alive.
time is valuable.
life is tooooooooooo valuable
enjoy to the fullest.


BEST OF LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-24 01:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by sarayyu 3 · 0 0

First realize that whatever you want to be already exist within you. Then experince becoming that. The key is to wholly believe that you can be whatever you want. If at any point you don't believe, it won't happen. you have the power to create whatever you want, you just have to believe.

2006-11-24 02:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Speed Of Thought 5 · 0 0

i got something perfect for u. It's long but worth the read.
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2006-11-24 01:09:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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