2006-11-23 16:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by Terri T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my sis was a cutter.
tell her you love her.
be there for her.
she needs something, find out what it is.
maybe she hates herself find out why.
if she progresses tell a school counselor or someone.
if she even MENTIONS suicide IMMEDIATELY call a counselor.
good luck girly, life sucks but there is hope.....
2006-11-23 16:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by spoonman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you have to do is too make sure she is safe. That may be that you need to let her family know what she is doing. Try talking to her to figure out why she is cutting. She is trying to feel something other than emotional pain or numbness. She is looking for attention and i dont necessarily mean that in a bad way. Let her know that you are there for her and that you will listen. IF she doesnt stop and it continues you really need to get her some professional help and let her family know if they dont know already. It could turn into something much worse, Death. and thats probably NOT what she wants. She is hurting and needs someone she can trust to be with her and help her, NOT to judge her but to just be her friend. I will put you and her in my prayers. Take care
2006-11-24 00:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that if she needs to talk that you are there to help her through it, trust me it helps i used to cut my wrists but then my friend said that she was always going to be there and she would help me thruogh it and dont tell them if you dont stop i wont be yur friend because it only makes the problem worse. offer to go to a counsuler. it will take time so just be understanding.
2006-11-24 00:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by alyssa r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting is a sign of anxiety your friend should seek professional help
2006-11-24 00:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by lilme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock some ******* sense into her. Tell her to stop and it isnt helping her to cut herself it makes everything worse. Lifes a ***** but its something u gotta do.
2006-11-24 01:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for him/her. Show them that somebody is there for them and that they aren't alone. Show them that they get attention and they don't need to get attention that way. Something like that. Other then that there isn't much you really can do.
2006-11-24 00:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by i_eated_ur_cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cry for help. I doubt she really wants to die but she needs professional help. I would get her to a hospital IMMEDIATELY.
2006-11-24 01:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk her into getting help. My husband use to do that I helped him get help. Tell them you love them and that you don't want to see them hurt. Tell them that you will be there for them but you need them to talk to someone that can help them through this. Tell them that you hate to see them in pain. Tell them that you care for them and you will stand by them and you love them and don't want to see them suffer. Also tell them that if they are afraid to get help you will go with them and be there by their side. Tell them that if they need someone to vent to you are the person they can count on!!
2006-11-24 01:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her and tell her to stop, like cry and tell her your worried about her, crying always works. then take away what she uses. if tht doen't work tell her mom and if she hates you, tell her you care for her and she needs to stop
2006-11-24 00:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur fren is in some sort of a pain..maybe u should ask her wat it is???if she is willin to share...assure her u r willin to lend her a hand...
2006-11-24 00:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋