Okay, I know what your thinking, but this is totally & completely different. Over the summer, I had my left boob growing, and the nipple, and its like kind of big, but my other ones completely flat and the nipple isnt developed. I started to have to pad the right side of my bra so people wouldnt be making fun of me about because that would obviously be hell annoying. Well, my friends and actually everyone started getting suspicious because I dont like to take off my shirt in the locker room so everyone can see my padded bra and find out about my secret and let the bullying begin. I am very determined to be keeping my secret, but this is getting worse cus I might have to move to Cali which means going to the beach like everday. No one but me knows about this, and I really dont want anyone to find out. Is there any way to get my other boob bigger to save the embrresment? I know that theres no turning back no I'll be called a s*l*u*t, save the lectures, please& thank you!
♥ ;; s a r a h
2006-11-23 16:15:25 · 15 answers · asked by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
People would call me a slut if they knew I padded my bra, thats why.
2006-11-23 18:22:46 · update #1
I feel so sorry for you.
Not only are you pretending to be twelve, but you are a man with fantasies about the answers.
Sod off, twit.
2006-11-23 16:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 7⤋
Why would anyone call you a slut? That's a perfectly reasonable question, and your attempts to deal with the issue were also reasonable.
You can't really make your breasts larger without expensive and painful surgery. It's also really, really common for women to have two different sized breasts. Some people, it differs by as much as a cup size. This also may just be some weird developmental hiccup, and you will end up with a nicely proportioned chest someday.
That doesn't help your immediate problem, though. Stuffing your bra is a good enough fix until you have to hit the locker rooms or water. You're at a sucky age, too, which makes it all worse. They do make breast paddings that look more real. In fact, they even make bras and bikini tops with removable paddings. That may be the route you want to take while your breasts catch up with each other. You could either get one of those fake breast insert things or you could get a bra with removeable padding and take out the padding on the one side.
I know this won't make you feel much better, but, I promise, every one of your friends has something extremely wonky going on with their bodies right now, or they will soon. This is the joy and horror of adolescence. They may be so focused on the weird stuff they have to deal with that they'll never notice your issue at all.
2006-11-23 16:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very likely that your other breast will catch up in time, though a slight difference in size is common. However even if the other one remains significantly smaller you should be proud. Hell, I think a guy would be lucky to have a woman with two different sized breasts. Really, it's like getting two different types of breasts from just one person. You should think of it that way, you aren't a freak, you're a one-of-a-kind!
Even so, it is most likely the smaller breast will catch up, so until then just hang in there. You'll get though it! Talk to your mom; I believe that certain stores make bras or bra inserts for just this type of thing. And the inserts are flesh colored too i think.
Best of luck! Have are good puberty and a good life.
~jon
2006-11-26 17:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Furo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sarah.........I understand your situation & the embarassment very well...........n my heartfelt regrets that such an unpleasant situation could develop!
I dont wnat to waste your and my time in speculating on what might be the casue. Please do let your parents in on this very personal secret........and let them take you to a rigth physician to get some concrete professional opinion........and late the correct remedy.
I would also advise that you withdraw your question to avoid getting the wrong influence from misguided, even though well intentioned, advices....or worse.....some nasty people may make a joke out of your predicament.
Take care, love.........and I hope you will grow into a full boxomed young lady one day!
2006-11-23 16:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by sandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay most girls' boobs are bigger on the left side becuz ur heart beating on the left siide, it sounds weird but liek everyone has one boob biggerthan the other, and they will eventaully kinda even out for now u just have to deal with having one a lil bigger than the other, i had the same problem with my bathing suit tops, my advice is to not go for the all out bikini top but the like more sportier loking top or liek tube top with a pattern on it, dont go for a solod color fo with somethign witha pattern or striped to help draw attention to the colors and not ur boobs, there are a lot of great bathingsuits out there that have padding too, and dont worry everyone has one boob bigger than the other!!! ur not a freak and people wont make fun of u for it and if they do well they are perverts becuz they are looking at ur chest!! EWW! PERVERT LOL dont feel bad and dont let ur self down becuz of boobs, when they get bigger and even out itllbe all good but u jsut gotta wait on mother nature i knw shes a ***** lol but dont worry i think ur makign a bigger deal than it really is! and if its really bad, u can get custom bras made just for u!
2006-11-23 16:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you are being shallow at all. I think that if you asked him out or told him how you felt then everything would work out. If he has a gf in a different state then he would probably dump (thats a pretty harsh word but whatever) with her to go out with you. In fact I think that his "gf" (I put it in quote marks cuz I dont think that is much of a gf if she is in a different state) is more of a backup. If he flirts with you and you like him I think that you should go for it.
2016-05-22 21:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have uneven breasts. You are still growing so your situation could change. Ask your mom to take you to a gyn so you can ask some questions and get some answers.
2006-11-23 16:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know of a girl who has a size d cup boob and the other is a c. she has to get bras specially made for her, but i'd say go to your doctor and maybe they can give you horomones to help you with your problem.
2006-11-23 17:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your mom? Talk to her about it and have her take you to the doctor. I have a 12 year old and if she came to me with a problem like this I would have no problem taking her to get it checked out. Good luck!
2006-11-23 16:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by jadedgirl149 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell someone and you have to see a doctor, Do it you know that you will be found out sooner or later so go seek help with your problem, if there is only a little difference that is normal but a big difference, you HAVE TO seek help
2006-11-23 16:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Augie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sarah dear... You have a Mom... Talk to her dear.....
If no mom... find a woman you trust... It is a girl things. Women like to talk about this stuff...
Dad's are OK too but really are lost when it comes to girl parts.
2006-11-23 18:48:06 · answer #11 · answered by stanmanin92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋