i dont like it hes only 15 what should i do
2006-11-23 16:10:46 · 28 answers · asked by kurocks2009 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Set down some rules but you'll have to follow through. You need to know where your son is and who he's hanging out with and if he's going out somewhere and the potential exists for him to have sex (no chaparone or whatever) then you need to think about restricting his freedoms. Also you need to control your home atmosphere if he's doing this at home you need to make sure he isn't alone and doesn't have the opportunity. Do what you can to explain that this is a very adult behaviour and something to be shared with someone special but he is too young to deal with the possiblitlies that having sex at such a young age will bring about (disease, pregnancy, emotions he's too young to deal with properly.) Other than that try to explain that when the time is right he needs to use protection.
2006-11-23 16:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by jamesnjenifer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about protection. Tell him how you feel about it. Inform him that it is natural, but you'd prefer him to wait until he is older.
My favorite suggestion comes from a friend of mine. SHe told me that when her son is old enough that he might become sexually active, she will have a box for him in the bathroom. In this box, there will be condoms. He can go to this box if he needs to, and she wont check up on him. Only once in a while will she check to just make sure it is stocked. She will tell him that she would prefer him wait until marriage, but if he must, he should do it responsibly.
I like that idea.
2006-11-23 16:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by ChrisB 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well it's too late now. Best you can do is give the speech and... the means and make sure his friends aren't a bunch of rednecks. I got Lucky when I went that way at seventeen with a girl who has been going on since she was (she was no longer at the time) fifteen and was able slap my... into shape with respect.
2006-11-23 16:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Hans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once sexually active, it's hard for a teen to understand all the ramifications. There are books by Josh McDowell that are geared for teens and he's done a lot of research that he talks about in his books. Do a search for Josh McDowell and look for books about teen sexuality. You can educated yourself and then your son. Hopefully something will get through to him.
God Bless,
Sue
2006-11-23 16:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is supply him with an adequate quantity of condoms and tell him you will throw him out if he gets her pregnant. Anything else you may try will be a waste of time - after all would you have given it up once you had your first taste?
2006-11-24 04:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can really do if he wants to have sex he is going to find away to do it no matter if you ground him for life or what ever I'd set down and talk to him about it about how you feel about it he will listen but he is the only one that can decide what to do and if he decides to keep having sex talk to him about protection and that if she isn't on the pill that she might want to get on it or the patch the shot something to be dubble portected kids don't wanna hear you can't your not allowed they wanna hear the truth about why you don't want them to because just like when they was babies and you told them not to do something they did it right? telling them not to just makes them do it got it?
2006-11-23 16:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This world today's pretty sad eh? Not really much you can do [like everyone's been telling you]. Just tell him all the risks involved in being sexually active. Which I'm sure he "already knows."
2006-11-23 18:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about using condoms and suggest he talk to his partner about the pill. There is nothing else you can do it's his choice to be sexually active or not, now it's a matter of being safe.
2006-11-24 02:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not really much you can do. I know 10 years old that are sexually active. Also I don't live in the best place in te world either.
2006-11-23 16:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Obviously you don't think you can stop this, however I am SURE you can, but. . . at the worst make sure he has COMPLETE knowledge of birth control, including condoms in his possession. Otherwise we'll be saying, 'Hi, Grandpa'
2006-11-23 16:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋