I like this boy and he dosnt like me back......and i just feel like giving up. Can anyone help me feel better?

Question

i need some support with this. i feel like no one will ever like me.

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Thank you everyone who responds to me, it means a lot to hear that, and i wont give up you are all right. I just have to keep trying!!

Answer 1

Rejection is never pleasant. Feelings are just feelings. You are grieving the loss of something you had hoped for. It's ok to feel blue for awhile.

Just because one boy rejects you doesn't mean no one will ever like you. You sound very young and have a lot of time for boys in the future. RELAX!

Find something you are interested in and join a club or group or sport. Explore who YOU are as a person. When you are active in groups with similar interests, you will likely meet a boy you will have things in common with..... and hit it off. In the meantime, being involved in something is better than sitting around depressed, right?

Best Wishes,

Sue

Answer 2

Hey, its really ok, you will get through it. Rejection hurts, I know, and everyone in this world knows. Its hard to think, and at such a young age, that the special guy that you have liked for so long, does not like you back... It can feel like the WORST possible thing in the world. But always remember that him not liking you, brings you one step closer to finding that one true person. I beleive that, and thats what gets me through the rough times. Also, you seem to be very young, maybe you just started H.S or you are still in JHS, do not obsess about boys now, you have plenty of time for that later. Why not focus on yourself right now? find out what you like, join a team, a club, become active in school and your community. You will feel alot better if you just shift your focus a bit. Trust me on this, the more you seek out love, and affection, the less of it you will recieve, just let love come to you in time. You're young, live life for yourself, right now! Hope you feel better! Good luck hun!^_^

Answer 3

I go though the same thing all the time. Even worse a lot of the guys that i like dont like me but end up liking my friends- one friend in particular. Its hard i know but just think that there is a wonderful guy out there waiting to find you too- it will just be a while

Answer 4

Omg I'm sorta going through the same thing i think...lol. This boy like me I think and knows I like him but it's not going nowhere. That's worse than what you're going through it's sorta like a waste of us liking each other. Ask someone else out. That boy probaly don't even got good taste! Don't worry about him! There's better people out there!!!

Answer 5

i am so sad right now. cause the guy i like doesn't and i HIGHLY doubt will EVER like me. He is 16 and i am 14 so ya . . . BIG PROBLEM. Even BIGGER problem . . . i am in 8th grade, hes in 11th. I am so sad am trying everything i can to feel better. it doesnt help that i have to spend at least 22 hours a week with him at gymnastics knowing that he knows i like him A LOT and knowing that he doesnt like me. It is also VERY hard trying to get over him.

Answer 6

hey i'v gone thu that alot, for real, don't be desperate, try this don't worry about finding aguy just sit back relax and enjoy the ride, sooner or later a boy is bound to knock on u'r door. u can't help liking guys, but let them come to u. trust mei'd know.

Answer 7

I feel You pain, I am going through the same thing. I am ready to give up myself, no guy is worth this!!! Wish I could feel better myself.

Answer 8

I feel like that 2... )= just don't give up and definitely don't feel bad.. if this guy is 2 stupid not to like u then what is the point of liking him? i hope that made since..... lol
anyways.. feel better & GOOD LUCK! ♥

Answer 9

its okay. the guy i like is going out with my (ex) best friend. everything has a purpose. dont worry,Jesus loves u! hetty,age 12