i would love to make new white friends [i love diversity] but im kinda scared of being rejected since ive heard many look down and hate blacks.also everytime i do cummincate w/ one i feel like they wont like me..what can i do??? :( [im 14]
2006-11-23 15:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone has insecurities about making new friends. I think you should stop looking at it as a race thing. I grew up with a lot of diversity. But, as a child, I didn't realize it. I've always been friends with everyone and never saw a color. You need to open your mind and look past the color of their skin. Good luck making new friends!!
2006-11-23 17:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
White people are no different than blacks, Hispanics, Asians or anyone else. Most of us have no problem with other races, it's the way people act and treat you that counts. All races have ignorant bigots, not just whites. Your best bet is to be yourself and no matter what color a person is, if your a good, honest person it will show and people will like you for who you are not your color.
2006-11-23 16:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are probably thinking about the same thing except that they are white. So just say hi or make casual conversation. I went through the same thing but they thought because I wasn't talking that I thought I was better than them. So just be yourself to them and you'll either be loved or hated
2006-11-23 15:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all people are that way. You have to just get out there and make new friends. I am white and have and love many black friends. You will run into not so nice people no matter their color and you just have to brush it off of your shoulders. Just be yourself.
2006-11-23 15:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont pick a person to befriend just cause they are white......you should be making friends with someone because you like them first...who cares what color they are........friends happen naturally, i dont go and say "Well i want one black and two chinese friends" like a food order........
2006-11-23 15:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by romanov1918 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True friendship is based on mutual feelings of wanting to share your time with each other because you have the same interest , trust and a sister/brother relationship.SKIN COLOR has nothing to do with friendship ! ! ! ! !
2006-11-23 16:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually we feel the same with black people. so thats why we act all weird cuz we dont know wat to say or do either. or if thye like u or not. and just go up to them they will be really shocked. most likly thye will acept u. and if thye dont then screw them and move on tosomeone new. good luck
2006-11-23 16:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by jessicacd91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your scared of P(_)ssy Whiteys?? HAHAHAHA.
2006-11-23 15:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋