To Love or not to love? Tis the question....?

Question

I'm 5'5" 168lbs, work construction out in the cold....
I'm searching for my first wife, at the ripe age of 32 years old,
Is there a woman out there, who won't ask me about my past?
Or better yet is there a woman who wants a love to last?
If I try to move on, am I doing the wrong thing? Is an old flame still lit?
Need I venture over the canyon, do I dare dive into the pit?
I still think of years gone by, the times I've shared with many...
Pleasant memories over power the bad ones, so few, almost any,
As I strive toward my own prosperity, taking any opportunity I find,
Being single at thirty something, Is always on my mind....
All I ask is for some insight, for a few words to assist my quest,
How may I find Mrs. Right for me, and for her be the best?

Answer 1

Take these words of wit www.plentyoffish.com comes to mind,
Its not a waste of time. Its free my friend. many women there without end. The best of luck to you and your new friend.

Answer 2

There is not a single "Ms Right" for you. There are lots of women whose personality types are compatible with yours, and you must find one of them.

The trick here is that most people find a personality type that they always get into relationships with. It that's not a healthy relationship, then they find another just like the first -- or almost as bad, a polar opposite, which doesn't work any better.

To answer the other questions --

Of course women will ask about your past. Would you want to marry someone whose had 3 husbands die under mysterious circumstances? Or who has trouble with embezzling money? Has a history of mental illness (or at least you'd wanna know about that one)?

What I'd suggest is seeking counseling, and center on the issue of your needing to form a good primary relationship. You'll figure out why things didn't work in the past, and what kind of person you're looking for, and maybe even feel much better about yourself.

Answer 3

You have to be honest about your past . If you truly want someone to be right for you and to love you for your self , To know that someone knows your past and loves you despite your past stupidity,that should be your quest.
Somethings effect the future and some never go away ,alcoholism,depression,control issues, violent tempers,bad credit,criminal records,pedophiles some can change, some never.
Woman need to know what there getting into up front so they can make an educated decision whether or not to get involved , Imagine you meet someone you love with all your heart and someone else tells her the truth and you lose her . Don't you think it's better to be honest up front and you never have to worry about that.
Your asking a woman to fall in love with a clean slate, a blank piece of paper,Any woman who does that doesn't love you.Only the idea of love.

Answer 4

nice poem
write poetry for some one you like
or if u don't have anyone then go on that compatibility online match making thing give it a try my aunt found her boyfriend that way

Answer 5

gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooodddddddddddddddd...happy hunting