If a friends with benefits you started to like, and knew for 2 month, disrespects you over the phone, and after 2 years later, they show up to your door and apologies and begs for your forgiveness, ( With the most sincerest eyes ever.) would you forgive them in due time and want to talk to them later on in life if you see them again?
I would answer myself but I'm not a cynical thinker ^.~
2006-11-23 14:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Forgive them, sure, why hold a grudge, but as far as talking to them later on down the road. Nope not really, I would be nice to them and probably say Hello but that would be the extent of the conversation. If they treated you that way once, they will do it again.
2006-11-23 15:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Marlene 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forgive them if you really care that much. Even if you're angry try not to forget you care if you do. You should never let anger guide you to making a bad decision. Life isn't like the movies, I swear. You should always forgive and forget the mistakes of people you care about. Think about if you didn't, will you wonder forever what it would've been like if you did?
2006-11-23 15:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Hellfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't hold a grudge after two years. I would just accept the apology and move on with my life.
2006-11-23 15:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him this time the promises his eyes make have to be kept by the rest of him and his behaviour. i believe people have the ability to grow, change and learn from their mistakes. cynical or not, curiosity will get the best of you if you let this one go unanswered.
2006-11-23 15:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. always forgive, but don't you ever forget what they said to you. if they turned on you that quickly before what makes you think they won't do it again?
2006-11-23 15:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-23 15:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋