♥Is it okay to avoid the kids at school?

Question

I mean....they're really nice and kool but I just havent found the friend for me. Dont get me wrong...I'm not a loser and I have tons of friends that I like...but I cant really explain it because my emotions are all tangled.

I mean....I need a friend that's just like me and I can really talk to and profound too. I guess the reason why I don't like the kids in my classes are because they're all into the "kool" stuff and incrowd. I observed them and they just want to be popular. Is it okay to avoid them if they're not my type of friends?

Ok...that sounded really judgemental and so wrong lol ^_^..grr, I' cant explain it. I jsut want to ahve a friend like me and not into saying ghetto stuff like "dont hate", "fine", "dang" and all that ghetto stuff....I know not all kids at my school are like that but I practially know everyone at school and they just seem....so alike.

But is it okay to avoid them if they're not my type of friends? If this sounds lame or judgemental...

I dont mean it and its just hard to explain....^_

I know I don't know them inside out.....but I need a friend like me. All my friends are into different stuff....will I find a friend like me in high school next year?

Answer 1

for starters, no one will be 100% like you. everyone will do something in differently from somebody else...

i suggest you think through these pointers: of all the friends you've made, think of the ones who actually made your day enjoyable. or those friends who listened to you when you were angry or sad. or those friends who you feel so comfortable with you let down your guard. even if they're different from you, these are the friends you should spend time with and get to know them better. you don't make instant friendships unless there's chemistry.

and, i wouldn't suggest you avoid your friends, because there's no guarantee there'll be a person like you in high school. remember everyone is different so just mix around and enjoy :)

Answer 2

its ok, but it is ok to have friends that aren't exactally like you. i have plenty

Answer 3

its alright but they might think ur wierd