I was in the bathroom last night washing my face and my husband snapped his fingers at me and motioned for me to come to him. (That is his way of calling me sometimes....its so cute!) I came to him and put my arms around him and my head on his chest and he told me he wanted me to wear this brown and white dress that he bought for me and a white cardigan sweater for Thanksgiving. I got so sad because I told him that I had let my sister borrow my dress and that I didn't have it. Well, it was too late last night to call her so my husband picked out something else for me to wear. I felt so bad because I love pleasing my husband and dressing up for him. I told my husband I was so sorry that I couldn't wear the dress and that I would do something very special to make up for it. Does anyone have any good ideas? I really would love to hear some, because I want to make my husband very happy. I love him so much!!
2006-11-23 14:40:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pathetic, but you are really getting good at putting in all the buzz words to disgust people and trigger their outrage. Let's see, you've covered toilet tricks, breastmilk to feed other people, obscure religions and practices, sexism, control issues with physical and emotional abuse, adultry, revenge with pork, and so many other things that have kept us 1) Slightly entertained; 2) Disgusted that sincere people are lured into responding to you; and, 3) Saddened that a person with such a twisted mind really exists.
To answer your fantasy question of the day - just keep doing whatever your husband tells you to do - teehee.
2006-11-23 19:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If she really is your best friend then it might be good to tell her. I would say something like " Oh, by the way, I saw John at Lane Bryant the other day" and see if she opens up. Chances are she knows. My cousin was married to a cross dresser and she finally felt relieved once the family found out. It doesn't have to be shameful. Just mention it as matter of fact and non judgemental. Obviously this guy has some additional issues but cross dressing is no big deal. It doesn't hurt anyone and with all the other big issues in the world..who cares. Give her the gift of complete acceptance and non judgemental. She probably needs it very much right now.
2016-05-22 21:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-23 15:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have got to be kidding, right? If you are old enough to be married, I would think you are old enough to pick out your own clothes. And old enough to know that you should only snap your fingers to call the dog or dance. I think you need to see a counselor to find out why you have no mind of your own and no sense of direction. It would be best to stay away from the husband while you do this. Then go back, after you have found some sense, and see if he still likes you. I bet you will find that you like yourself much more than you like him......
2006-11-23 14:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nancyjo W 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
OOOOOH!!! You are really slipping! I mean, I thought some of your other questions were indicators that you had lost your touch, but this one is weak, weak, weak!!!
I guess when you post over 50 questions about a fake life eventually you run out of steam. I hope you're back to your old self soon!
2006-11-24 09:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah just likeall your other notes you have left about him spanking you out in front of a gas station and giving youlove taps in public.. change your name at least everyone is getting use to you comingon here with diffrent fantasies i think you need a good spanking and have your hubby really do these thigs to you rather than posting what you like just go up to him and tell him what you want you have a good imagination try using it to turn him on with it rather than on here to strangers.
2006-11-23 20:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not up to par for your usual fake life questions. There is not Lesbianism, not polygamy, no Breast Milk to strangers, not even food in bodily orifices. So disappointing.
2006-11-25 04:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by anjel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While your 'husband' and I were in the throes of passion,he yelled out that he didn't love you, and gave me that cardigan sweater to wipe my hairy, sweaty, body with.I love him sooooooo much!!!
2006-11-23 18:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by jbc3d33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try too catch him of guard & dress up or down for him or wake him up early in the mourning with some massage thearpy,go from there this is the best time for a man to get off.especially when its beyound his controol
2006-11-23 14:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Don't let your husband walk all over you like that, he's using you and not respecting you.
2006-11-23 14:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋