My g/f invited me to her place for Thanksgiving, since I don't spend time with my family for Thanksgiving since my mother passed away. She invited me and my roommate over, and when I knocked on the door, she didn't answer, and well..her bedroom window is right by the front door, and I heard her and someone having sex in her bedroom. Why would someone do something like that? On Thanksgiving even... I don't understand. And to top it all off, I think it was her and a straight guy! I'm so confused...angry, hurt...sad...what should I do?
2006-11-23 14:40:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Aw wow. rough situation. I'm sorry that had to happen to you. I think a lot of us have been cheated on, and it sucks. time will make the pain less, but one thing important to remember is:it is her problem, not yours. There are great, fabulous, handsome, smart people getting betrayed all the time-- it is her own insecurity. as for why in that way--? she may just be mean-spirited, or addicted to the rush of knowing she was getting away with something, with you so close by. Hard to contemplate as someone who can't imagine doing that, but there are cruel people in the world who do things for the self-serving purpose that it brings them. Again, i'm sorry that you are dealing with this.... stay strong.
2006-11-23 14:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by njchica 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously a low-class floozy with marginal morals and minimal intelligence. After witnessing her screwing around like that prior to serving dinner, be glad you didn't stay for the meat, or the gravy! (I'm assuming that you left.) Someone like that would likely not wash her hands. Ugh! So drop the slut. Then when she calls and asks why you don't bother with her anymore, you can say that you've got more important people to hang with.
2006-11-23 22:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by steviewag 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow!! was that her way of tell you it was over. That horrible i feel for you. You should talk to her about an give thanks that you found out because if she hasent told you about it yet and you didnt come at that time then you might have never found out and she might have been cheating on you for a while. I would really talk to her about it and if she says it is true then maybe break it off
Hope the best for you
2006-11-23 22:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Erin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry she did something like that to you. I'm sure it's going to be a long weekend. Hang out with friends.
I came back to add that I always find your photo and postings charming and I'm sure that I'm not the only one.
2006-11-24 00:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by jane7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its ok...forget about it n move ahead in life........the thing is that she wanted to have sex with u by inviting u for thanksgiving..........i believe u should talk to her abt this........its a natural process becoz she wanted to satisfy her self and u should help her as this will bulid a strong relationship between both of u........
2006-11-23 23:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by rhl_goyal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well are confused she was doing it with a straight boy ?
or because she was just doing it anyway?!!!
explain more plz
2006-11-24 02:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Gosh, how about discussing it with her? That's what actual adults do in situations like the one you described.
2006-11-23 22:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know it may sound negative and un-nescessary, but I would get revenge.
2006-11-24 01:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, she cheated. I think it's pretty much over.
2006-11-23 22:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by BiyGuy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and find someone that'll treat you better.
2006-11-24 00:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋