are people really that picky to knowing what others want? i told her i didn't care and to surprise me. but she is still on my case about it.
2006-11-23 14:39:59 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
and if i told her something expensive .....she would flip on that too
*i'm 20*
2006-11-23 14:42:17 · update #1
as people get older, parents of older kids, it's hard to know what to give your kids and she really wants some ideas so she will give you something that you need or really want. when my kids got to that point, i had them make me list and I'd choose from the list because i didn't have a clue what to buy without it. now, we go in together and adopt a child for Christmas instead of buying gifts for each other and have a good time shopping for the child we adopted. It seems to mean more to do for them since they don't have family.
2006-11-23 16:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Texas T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell her just ONE thing, but give her a list of several items you would like to recieve or need the most. Some people have a hard time on getting something they think you would use and appreciate, so help her out and give her a list to choose from.
2006-11-23 15:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by beginner player 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mom may not want to dissapoint you. (like perphaps last year) and not to waste money on stuff you don't want. Just give her some "ideas" like . Make it causal though. (ON christmass Do not look dissa -pontied if you dont' take my addviss) Like Mom i'd like a i-pod a jacket some accsorries and A new desk. (so she can chose one or more of the idea so she knows a basic idea of what you want but yet there her choices.
2006-11-23 14:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she just wants to know what to give you to make you happy.
some people feel really pressured when it comes to gift buying. and if you don't tell her something you would like she'll end up getting something you probably wont like and yeah you get the point. if you really dont care what she gets you then just tell her anything so she'll have something to get you.
good luck
2006-11-23 16:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by beemariebee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants to give you a good Christmas. it is annoying though when you aks people what they want for christmas or their birthday and they don't tell you. You are affraid that they are not going to like what you got them.
2006-11-23 14:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 14:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by barsky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a list of suggestions. It will give her something to work with and make it easier for her.
2006-11-23 14:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are so spoiled that whatever she DOES get you, you won't appreciate it.
OR--and I doubt this- you are a true giver who doesn't care about material possessions.
Tell her you want her to donate money in your name to your favorite charity.
2006-11-23 14:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want a Mercedes
2006-11-23 14:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Voltage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in that case ask her for the world.
2006-11-23 14:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋