Meaning, you were 110% certain they were straight but it turned out they were gay. And you were shocked.
2006-11-23 14:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by BiyGuy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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Hmm. That is so sad. Why don't you write her a letter and apologize to her for being so mean to her. She's your blood.
2006-11-23 15:03:29 · update #1
One of my fraternity brothers was always dating homecoming queens and the sorority girls were almost waiting in line to date him. His Dad got a job transfer to another state and he finished up his college senior year at another school. I went to visit him 2 years later and when I got there he told me that his 2 roommates were gay (and since he was 110% straight I never thought that he was gay). The day before I left he told me that he was gay too. I think I walked around with dumbfounded after that out of shock, but it ended up helping me out when I came to terms of myself being gay a few years later because I realized that gay people are like everyone else and that stereotypes aren't how people really are.
2006-11-23 15:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am no longer shocked by any such information that comes to light. I am surprised sometimes, but not shocked. It sometimes does take me aback though how someones sexuality is expressed, how intense it can become or expressed in unusual ways -- like the sex in public places scenario.
I am a little surprised today that many people who do have an interest in their same sex do not always label themselves as gay. "Experimenting" is a label that comes to mind. Also, I think that more and more bisexuals are at least admitting their sexual orientation to themselves.
2006-11-24 01:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With some guys I went to high school with, I wasn't shocked, but I was suprized. Then when I thought about it, it kind of made perfect sense.
There was a guy I was friends with as a kid, and when I got a job at the same place he worked at when we were older (and he was gay), I teased him about how I knew him when he was girl-crazy.
There have been people I've known, and I was shocked to find out they were straight. :-)
2006-11-23 23:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just saddened really, my cousin was last boy to carry a disappearing family name, he never married because he was gay, shocked many people in our family; just made me sad to see the line become extinct.
2006-11-23 22:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was compeletly shocked when I know the guy whom I did everything to avoid cuz he showed interests in my was gay. We became close friends after he told me he's gay.
2006-11-24 00:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Questioning 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that happen sometime you could have sware they were straight and then u find out there gay but its cool. You dont have to show it and i bad at tell that anyway but my girls good at tell if there gay or not
2006-11-23 22:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Miss. Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually quite the opposite, someone i thought was gay. my gaydar went off every-time we were around each other, and had all the mannerisms of a twink. so i finally asked him out on a date and he introduced me to the girl he had been dating and their child. guess i needed to get an adjustment to the gaydar......dam he was cute too
2006-11-23 23:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never shocked, alittle surprised but it is far to commom today
2006-11-23 22:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,---Neil Patrick Harris!!
My SON is gay, but DOOGIE?????
Dang.........
2006-11-23 22:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I NEVER assume.
2006-11-24 01:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋