..I hate casual dating and want to find a 40ish, attractive, honest, playful guy to settle down with, but they seem to be all taken. I despise players and cheaters. What's the best way to find someone?
2006-11-23 14:35:53 · 10 answers · asked by 2sweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be open and honest. Let yourself be, who you are. That person will find you.
2006-11-23 14:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean about the cheaters and players, that is why I gave up trying, ever one that I met has all been like that. I am 50 and to old to start over again. I have already decided to just live alone for the rest of my life. And I also hope that all those women out there that helped my x bf cheat on me is happy with their self now. I just hope that someday when they really do met someone that they love that someone will cheat on them. PAY BACK I am not just blaming the women the men can learn to say no too.
2006-11-23 15:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend sucking it up and trying some online dating. Its no longer as taboo as it used to be. In fact, if you ask around, almost everyone nowadays seems to know a couple or two that got hitched after meeting via the Internet.
My favorite sight so far is match.com, many of my friends have met great guys through this site and have been with them over a year (including myself!). All of these relationships are very much on a more "serious" track. I think with online dating you tend to meet guys that are truly looking for something special.
Some tips:
-get a GREAT photo of yourself
-be honest but make your profile stand out (think: resume of LIFE)
-try not to get sucked into too much online exchange, but meet up in a public place ASAP. People tend to be very different in person than they are in email (this turned out to be VERY good thing in my case)
-if the 1st date wasn't horrible, give it a 2nd chance. I've had many sorta strange 1st dates that resulted in AMAZING 2nd dates simply b/c both guards went way down a bit
-be safe, do your research, trust your instincts etc
GOOD LUCK!.
2006-11-23 14:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you..how about a 35 year old, not quite as attractive as I once was, honest except on resumes, playful guy with a good job..very ready to settle down.
if yes then write me
2006-11-23 14:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by vincenzo445 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You meet them at the laundramat or grocery store.
2006-11-23 14:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me know when you find one and see if he has a brother. lol
2006-11-23 20:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am here, christian man.
2006-11-23 14:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here i am,where are you?
2006-11-23 14:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT DON'T RUSH.
2006-11-23 14:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious ?
Then please contact me ....
2006-11-23 15:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋