Well here's the deal...I have a boyfriend whom i trully really love......i've cought him twice flirtin and i'm really sensitive about it and he know's it whenever i ask him he says tha the girls abviously likes him and he could not just walk away so he always says his solution is flirtin back this really freaks me bcoz i think if he flirts with some1 else i'll loose him,,,,,,,,he tells me often that he loves me and i believe him but i'm just completly confused if he trully loves me as he claims or he's just another looser
2006-11-23 14:20:14 · 18 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he is still with me and says i love you, my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
2006-11-23 14:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on what a person's description of love is. In my experience, for each person the word is different. What I attempt to do is have someone in my life, which I have now, that has a somewhat similar definition to what I have.
Personally I would not want my wife flirting with another man, so I don't flirt with other women. When women flirt with me I tell them I'm married and I walk away. In may sound like website bull but it's true. I wasn't always this way.
I love women, everything about them. Small, big, made-up, plain and in all shades. But since I know I'm weak, I don't even begin ANYTHING EVER. Maybe your b/f is really strong and can be all turned on by a woman and nothing happens. I'm not that strong...
2006-11-23 22:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he flirts so much it might be a chance that he will go all the way and actually end up cheating. If yall are so in love he should not have time to filrt or even look at other girls cause he should cherish you and want to give you all his attention because he dont want to lose you. He should not have time to flirt with anyone else since he should be focused on you and only you. I cant say if he loves you or not, you have to figure that out on your own. but from what you said he sounds like a egotistic dog who thinks he can have his way and know that you will always be there.Good Luck
2006-11-23 22:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long you two have been together, I think it takes time to mature and when you two know each other really well he will give you the respect you deserve, you should talk with him and tell him how you feel seriously and let him know you do not want him flirting, men thinks these things don't matter but it does because if you did it it will bug him.
2006-11-23 22:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by tambranmasala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok that is NO excuse for him to flirt back. He admitted it, yeah thats good but him not being sorry for it and doing it a second time is WRONG. What happens if your not there to catch him in the act and he goes further into it. You never know but why stick around and find out. I dont know him but he sounds like a pig from your description. Do yourself a favor and dont fall into "oh if I dont flirt back" crap. He is only lieng to you and it's his excuse of getting out of it. If you dont do anything about it then he is gunna think it's ok. Dont get your feelings hurt. Dont let him fool you when he says I love you. Be independant and get away from that looser. Dont let him hurt you. good luck=)
2006-11-23 22:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by ~*mwah*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm heres some questions for you that might help you: do u like him enough to tell him how you feel, are you just over-reacting about this, (even though im sure u arent) and if he really likes you why would he do this? Anyway can you trust him enough? Think about it he can just walk away from girls, he just decidees to keep flirting? Is he worth it?
2006-11-23 22:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that sometimes guys will flirt with girls to...make them feel better about them self but I don't think its right for them to flirt all the time he should only have eyes for you and only want to flirt with you..if it doesn't stop maybe you need a new guy.
2006-11-23 22:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by brooke g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he could like you but he probly doesnt love love you or else he would stop flirtin w/ other grls. do not let him control ur life or hold u bac from doing what u like to do have fun..if he doesnt care about ur feelings than he is not worth your time.
2006-11-23 22:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ha ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be real careful with him. Don't be pushy, but also let him know that you are the one he supposedly loves. Love him. We guys can be really stupid sometimes, and when we snap out of it, it is sure nice to still have a girl that loves us. But, don't let him treat you like property.
2006-11-23 22:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by joshatgrace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he's not mature enough for you, he still feeds his ego by flirting with other girls.- get out , dont let him waste your time.
Think of it this way, if it bothers you, and he's still flirting , would you rather stay and worry the whole time? or get out and look for someone who loves you and doesn't flirt.
2006-11-23 22:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋