how do you lose it, i was wondering what ways, if possible.
2006-11-23 14:19:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
please do not try to abort your fetus.. you will probably hurt yourself more than anything, and if you attempt something and it doesnt work out you could kill the baby and also die because of a loss of blood or something...
you have had 4 months to make this decision, you need to see it through.... if that means giving your baby up for adoption that is fine, you may even be able to find a family that wants a new baby who is willing to pay for your medical expenses while carrying the child with the idea that once the child is born, that it goes to them...
also, if you give birth to a baby, and you dont want it - do not leave it in a dumpster or somewhere... you need to take the baby to a firehouse and leave it with them .... if you leave your child anywhere else..even at a church, you can be arrested.
2006-11-23 14:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Valkrygrrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to prevent losing baby or do you not want baby?
If you are trying to prevent - well "losing a fetus" is referred to as miscarriage. If it is going to happen then there isn't alot that you can do about it but apparently you should avoid too much caffeine and obviously stay away from drugs etc.
If you are pregnant and "want" to "lose" the fetus then the only way to do that is by an abortion through a reputable abortion clinic - i think it can be done up to 20wks (i THINK - but don't quote me on it because i'm not 100% sure). If you are wanting to "get rid" of it that is the ONLY way - don't try anything "do-it-yourself" - its dangerous for you AND it may not work! But could mean you will give birth to a baby with any amount of problems!
2006-11-23 14:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the people who already answered... i dont know how to take ur question. are u wanting to know so u can be careful not to lose ur child or are u trying to find away to get ride of the baby???? One thing I know is if u dont want the baby, there are many many familys who would LOVE to have a baby who cannot have one of their own, or who would just LOVE to add to the family they already have. Clearly if u are wanting to abort the baby now, ur not to worried about the childs needs so any family would be better then u at this point. If u are wanting the baby and are just worried u could or may lose it, then I say calm down and stop stressing. Stress can cause dificulties in pregnancy. Sit back relax and enjoy a life being created in ur body, a blessing from GOD. Good luck
2006-11-23 14:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by goober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you ought to speak to someone and try to get some sort of help. I'm sure that if you were trying to ensure your baby's safety then you would not refer to it as either a "fetus" or an "it". There are people that can help you come to terms with what is happening in your life right now but you need to take a deep breath and put yourself out there for them to know you are in trouble. I'm not judging you and nor will someone that you go to for help, ie. a doctor, counsellor, trusted person you know. It is very foolish to ever attempt some sort of self-abortion as the baby usually comes anyway and you end up harming yourself. Honestly, there are options out there that are in your best interests, just find someone that can give you the help and support you need. Good luck and please do not do anything you may one day regret.
2006-11-23 14:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sounds to me you need some help. if your trying to keep from losing your baby thats one thing but if your trying to lose it thats another what did that baby do to you??????? do you honestly think it wants to be born to a mommy who was to stupid to use birth control and is now wanting to kill it??????????? you messed up not the baby and to be honest i think the best thing you could do for your baby is to push it out and hand it over to someone who cares. if your not ready to make a baby you should keep your legs CLOSED or use BIRTH CONTOL and maybe even a CONDOM
2006-11-23 14:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to find a way to kill your baby? or trying to avoid losing him or her? I dont know how to take your question.
2006-11-23 14:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm pro choice but if you're trying a do-it-yourself abortion, i dont have a lot of pity for you.. Its not all that smart and at 4 months the baby is fully formed and rather large, and can feel, just keep that in mind.
2006-11-23 14:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mina222 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to lose your baby or are you trying to aviod it? Sounds like you want to self abort
2006-11-23 14:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ma say if your trying to harm your baby you are very warped, and if your trying to harm someone elses, your still warped. If you didn't want a baby, you know how to prevent things like that.... its called NOT HAVING SEX!
2006-11-23 14:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Trisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT A "FETUS" IT IS A BABY!!!
Please re-ask your question: "Ways to Kill My baby"
What if your MOTHER had asked this SAME question and she got an answer that she liked????? "HUH"????
2006-11-23 14:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by photogram1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋