My dad died in 1995. We never made peace with each other prior to his death. For a few years after he came into my dreams every night. The dreams were bad and we always argued in them.
One day finaly I went to see him in the cemetery. The cemetery was big and I found him there so easily. It was like just someone was holding my hand wile walking me towards him. I made my peace and he hasn't been back in my dreams ever since.
Is it possible that I was holding his soul in here? Am I crazy to think that?
2006-11-23 14:11:37 · 13 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds to me that your dreams were caused by your feeling guilty about never having made peace with your dad.
Having said that, I have had experience in contacting the spirits, on more than one occasion, and spirits of different people, and your story about going to the cemetery is quite feasible. Spirits can guide you to places, and things. I firmly believe that. I would be interested to know what date you went to the cemetery, but I believe you were definitely visited by your dad, and guided by his, or other spirits
No, you're not at all crazy.
2006-11-23 14:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Darkwing 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy. I do believe and have experienced it myself. I too thought I was nuts or just had an active imagination, then 2 other people told me the same scenario - 'Hey, it was weird, I walked in your house and could almost see Anthony on your couch, his presence was intense, like he was still alive." And they told me this out of the blue, I never mentioned to them that I thought he was there too.
I'm glad you found peace, that must have been a difficult 12 years. I didn't get to say goodbye to my father either. I was so young and stupid, sort of ironic how his passing made me grow up so quick and to be so responsible.
2006-11-23 14:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by pumbakitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe it is possible to contact the dead. If he had a funeral and all, I don't think you were holding his soul. I believe our loved ones spirits are all around us. I believe they come to us in our dreams when we need them. Look up Mary Ann the Ghost Buster on the Internet. The Ghost Whisperer is patterned after her life. I don't think you are crazy. Just keep your life balanced and trust in the Lord.
2006-11-23 14:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently YOU have made peace now.
What you couldn't resolve in his life time you resolved in your dreams. Acceptence and letting go with peace is your answer.
Your father came to you in your dreams that was real and your not crazy. Spirits do come to us in many forms to resolve conflicts or send us messages. Love is the answer.
Ps there is a wonderful site hayhouse.com that has some wonderful people who answer those kind of questions.
2006-11-23 14:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by degraysignatures 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by mathison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not his sole but his spirit seems to have been with you still. I am glad you have found the peace between you two and no, this isn't unusual.
2006-11-23 14:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not crazy to think that. i believe there is a possiblity of contact with the dead... its always in your heart. i think what you explain did happen. thats great that you made peace.
2006-11-23 14:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by MissBellaGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in that, and I've had experiences that prove it to me. I think your dad knew you needed to make peace with him, so he helped you.
With my experience, I couldn't be with my mom when she passed and we were very close. At her funeral I was thinking I wished I could have one last hug, and I felt her arms around me right where they would always be when she hugged me.
2006-11-23 14:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe in spirits
2006-11-23 14:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh... NO!!!! you're weird... you need to see a pyschologist.
and why would you care if you were arguing with him even if he's DEAD eh? yeah
2006-11-23 14:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by mcstennis09 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋