how do you deal with loneliness in marriage?

Answer 1

Well, you should find another partner.

Answer 2

First off, when you are lonely in a marriage you need to remember what the definition of a marriage is in the first place. A marriage is an agreement between you and another individual to be together, come what may. They are your friend, your lover, and the one person in this world you can always count on.

If you feel lonely or that something isn't right, try to find the time to sit your spouse down and talk about it. They can't fix what they don't know about---or if they do not know the severity of the problem. If the discussion works well, then try to do things to rekindle the love that you feel has diminished. Go out to eat more often, see some movies, compliment your spouse, do some things you know they like, and/or let them know how your feel, especially when you are very happy and when you are very sad. Thank them everyday, at least once, for all that they do for you.

Don't let your marriage fall apart. Try to take steps to bring back the love you both felt and fill that void that is bringing about the loneliness. Don't be afraid to take that first step. For all you know, it just might work if given enough effort.

Answer 3

You shouldn't feel alone in a marriage. You have to look at what you can do to overcome the loneliness. Is it communication? Could it be no alone time? Look it what is making you lonely and change it. No one but yourself will make you feel better! Good luck and God Bless!

Answer 4

I've been married over 25 years, I know, it happens sometimes. Life happens, you work, come home from work, work, and feel numb, empty. Join the crowd, you're definitely not alone. Seriously find something you like to do, a hobby or sorts, sounds lame, but it's works for everyone. This feeling comes and goes, always will. The good times will come around too. Best of luck, take care of yourself.

Answer 5

It isn't easy. I am married and deal with the same thing and when I tell my husband how I feel he tells me to deal with it and if I don't like it, tough s**t. So, I am now seperated from him and seem to be enjoying my lonlieness now more than ever....suffering is optional I have come to find out.

Answer 6

just focus on you for a while...give your partner a chance to miss you.........most times boredom with the marriage is confused with loneliness....good luck

Answer 7

I would think you are feeling this way because you are unhappy with your self and you spouse.

A marriage takes two people working hard and playing hard to make it work. You can't do it by yourself.

Happiness and validation come from within, don't look to another to make you happy.

Answer 8

Try to change something in your life everytime you remember.
You'll be amazed with the things you'll come up with. If this person is still in to you" he/she will feel the energy and.. off you go. A new start ...

Answer 9

It's hard, I am still working on that myself. My husband and I rarely have "quality" time to spend together anymore, but I have to appreciate any time that we have together. I try to find things that we can do together that we are both interested in, but that is easier said than done.

Answer 10

Specify? You're not getting along w/ your wife? Talk to her, maybe get a marriage counselor, etc.

Answer 11

you don't it will eat away at you and you'll feel lousy your better off living alone and doing your own thing than living in a loveless loney narraige. thats no life