i know that it will hurt the first time i have sex, but i just want to know if there is a way i can prepare my body so that the tight squeeze wont be so un-bearable. any suggestions?
2006-11-23 14:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My dear, first of all, if you are ready to have sex with someone you should know a lot of things about your body, your erogenous zones are very important when you have sex, your partner must know all of that as well, so at the moment of the first penetration you will be very ready to receive him, dont have sex only for have the experience, just do it when you feel you are prepared for it.One thing that can help yourself is masturbation, learn how to please yourself and have fantasies about how could be the sexual act helps a lot, and of course talk with your boyfriend about what you like and dislike without tabues.Sex is a very natural thing and nobody should be ashamed to talk openly about that.When you are really excited and love and like what your partner is doing, the pain will be minimus and will be an splendid experience
2006-11-23 14:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your girl friend is a virgin and thinking about sex but is worried about the pain then she is not ready to have sex. this is something you dont think about when it is your time.
2016-03-29 07:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not unbearable..
It is really not bad at all...
Use your fingers to stretch yourself a bit..
Make sure you bring some extra lubricant with you..
Make sure he goes slow & gentle..
You sit on top of him and lower yourself down onto him..
This gives you more control and makes it much easier...
2006-11-23 14:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop rushing,use lots of lube,and don't try to put it all the way in.Maybe a finger for a while first.And most of all,use protection.
2006-11-23 14:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cucumbers
2006-11-23 14:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
the only way to be prepared for you not to feel much is pain is to prepare urself for it. u shud relax during the !@#$%^&* and as much as possible hav ur privet part excret its fluid (not the urine) first before the big dong come in. but for sure ul stil feel pain and bleed but u can minimize it by doing so.
2006-11-23 14:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by freeman1822001 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
seriously you should wait til your a woman,but in the mean time try to relax.
2006-11-23 14:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by onewaybb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no never heard of preparing yourself! i think you just have to DEAL WITH THE PAIN♥
enjoy!!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 14:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wait until you grow up.
2006-11-23 14:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
shave her privet part
2006-11-23 14:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey J 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋