Well, I am in love with a guy that I was with for 2 years and been knowing each other for 3 years. Well, I feel as though he loves me too, but not the same way because he doesn't really show it. Well, I wish there was something for me to do to show him and make him see that I can make him happy like before and that I love him with all of my heart. What can you do when you love someone so much but the other person doesn't? ADVICE?
2006-11-23 13:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, then it was meant to be; if not, you are better off without him. Trite, but true.
2006-11-23 13:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by HCH32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two options: 1. Leave him (as painful as it may be) or 2. Lump it (which is also very painful).
Maybe he does love you, but doesn't express it the way you would like him to. Usually it's very difficult for a person to change if they are like that. Or maybe your intuition is right and he isn't really in deep love with you. If this is the case, you have to think about what things you are willing to look over and what things you just can't put up with. Can you really make a person happy if he doesn't love you? What about you and the happiness and love you need. Love is a two way thing. Good luck.
2006-11-23 21:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change someone elses feelings. If he doesnt love you like he use to then talk to him and find out what happened.
Maybe, he going through something and he is pulling away from everyone. Maybe he still loves you just the same, but cant show you because of something else.
Talk to him, but trust your gut. Dont waste 2 more years of your life with someone who doesnt love you back.
2006-11-23 21:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. It's so hard to make the first move, but guys actually love it. It makes them feel like they're good enough that a girl will step out of her comfort zone to tell them how they feel, and who knows? Maybe the only reason he hasn't told you straight out is that he doesn't think YOU feel as strongly as HE does!
It's scary--the fear of rejection is almost enough to keep me from asking guys out, but every boyfriend I've ever had I've made the first move on. In fact, my current, who has made me more happy than I've ever been in my life, was too afraid of ME to make the first move. We've been together over four months!
2006-11-23 21:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Eevie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot make someone love us. You may want to be less humble and try going your way for awhile. Allow him to chase you and if he doesn't, then maybe that is your signal. We sometimes have to just let him go. Good luck.
2006-11-23 21:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know men don't express there feeling like woman do ,hopefully...If its beyond that then you need to hold your head up and say good bye..Its not going to be easy and it won't last forever,but chasing after something that won't be caught will hurt your heart more..
2006-11-23 21:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by onewaybb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men show their feelings differently . Just talk to him .
2006-11-23 21:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he doesnt show it as often it doesnt mean he doesnt love you....would he still be with you after two years if didnt love you but knew that you loved him?
2006-11-23 21:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by lexie1488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to make it perfect,just love him and accept the love he gives back.Trying to hard will just kill it off.Like giving water to a plant everyday,soon your going to kill it cause you drown it.(Get it?)
2006-11-23 21:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to make him love you. it is his feelings.
Why would you love someone that does not love you.
2006-11-23 21:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋