Okay. I'm obsessed with this guy in my school that's one year older than me. I know his name but he doesn't know me, well, i don't think so. && I wanna ask him out. But my friend in in the same GR. as he is in knows him and is his friend. She said it's best to not ask because if you really get rejected, you'll be embarassed. But, i really want to ask, but....He doesn't know me yet, i think....-____-" But I'm scared that I'll be rejected too... What can I do? Please help?
2006-11-23 13:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by nicokyu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just ask him out. So what if you are rejected. It will hurt but you will get over it and eventually it will make you stronger.
If you do not ask, then forever you will never know if he would have said YES.
Take chances in life. Sometimes the most wonderful things pass us by because we don't take a chance.
Remember, all he can say is No.....it will hurt, but it won't kill you. Although, you may feel that way.
Go for it. Good Luck!
2006-11-23 13:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by megabites42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend doesnt want you to ask him because maybe she wants him for herself. I say screw that and ask. Maybe he does know who you are, maybe he doesnt. But without taking the chance, you'll get nowhere. Rejection hurts, but it helps make you who you are and with some time, you'll get over it and be able to move on. Good luck =)
2006-11-23 21:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Danelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to become friends with some of his friends. then you guys will just casually start seeing eachother more. dont act like your into him right away. it will make him notice you more and make him think about who you are. if hes like most guys it will totally turn him on that you would be a challenge to get. that way, hopefully he will want to make the move on you, and it saves you the rick of being rejected.
hope that helps!
=)
2006-11-23 21:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dee Baby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you always let others think for you ?
2006-11-23 21:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋