I like one of my friends, but she has a boyfriend. I'm like madly in love with her, i even write poems about her. I dont know if i should tell her this or not cause she's completely oblivious to the fact.
2006-11-23 13:00:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She knows i'm lez and she doesnt have a problem with it.
2006-11-23 13:16:30 · update #1
I would tell her how you feel. You need to get it off your chest. Remember though and be prepared, the answer you get may not be what you expected to hear.
Good luck!
2006-11-23 13:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, on one hand I think you should tell her, but then again, if you don't know if she's bi or les, you could end up hurting your friendship a lot more than it's worth. Find out if she's bi or les first, because if you jump into confessing this and she isn't, then she might not want to have anything to do with you about it. Does she know you are attracted to girls?
At the very least, wait until she isn't dating anyone.
Hope this helps!!
2006-11-23 13:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear You, better not tell her about it. Coz You know that She has a boy friend, it means She regarded you as a friend. Only as best friend.... If you tell her about it, it will ruining the friendship with her, you`ll lose her. Ofcourse you dont wanna it happen, do you?
So, must think positively, sometimes, what we expecting is not belong to us, try to accept it with `happy go lucky`, and I do believe the friendship will go on and who knows later you`ll meet someone who really love you and you love her too..
2006-11-23 13:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how much she can really take it and accept it and stuff...but tell her...just watch out on how she may tell people and it can spread through the grape vine real quick. Depends on you two having a good relationship/friendship and known eachother for a long time.
2006-11-23 13:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um im not sure if shes lez. she has a boyfriend! but if you feel like you haave to just tell her than dont let us stop you!
2006-11-23 13:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her she might not wanna be aound you and that will hurt... but If if will make you feel better than maybe you should just let it all out.... You'll fell way better without having to carry a chip on your shoulders.......
Good Luck in what you decide to do......
2006-11-23 13:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Devi! At the Disco <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sake of creating an awkward friendship afterwards I would say no... at least wait until she breaks up with him
2006-11-23 13:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by gg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To what? That your gay?(If your a woman) That you like her? Will telling her destroy your friendship? If so,keep it to yourself unless your willing to take the risk.
2006-11-23 13:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling the truth will set you free...but be careful though...if u are planning to tell her, just don't expect something in return like she would also fall for you.it's not always like that.gudlak though!
2006-11-23 13:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by bisaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong when you tell somebody about your love. No matter who she is and what her status is. Let her know your feeling.
2006-11-23 13:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by polie_tikus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋