2006-11-23 12:44:17 · 16 answers · asked by sneakyrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
man say we get more demanding when they get married --- dont! its his lost!
2006-11-23 19:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by MaRitA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-23 19:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some fear of making it work and they will fail in it. others know they make good lovers but not good husbands. others have seen so many people end in nasty marriages they don't want to go through it again. some are very sensitive and couldn't take the loss. and some just like to keep playing and they way both side and say why should i give all that up to one woman. and miss out on continueing to play. others marry and still play but do it without getting caught if there crafty enough. so there are many reasons.
2006-11-23 20:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are almost no advantages for a man to get married. If you get dirvorced, and most people do, men get taken to the cleaners, financially. The real question is why do any guys do it? I guess it's to make a girl happy.
2006-11-23 15:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married means extra responsibilities. Some men dont want that. They also dont want to be "tied down". They want their freedom to do what and with who they want, no questions asked. I think that pretty much sums it all into one!
2006-11-23 12:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scared to death..We'd rather be in the middle of a shootout without a gun or bulletproof vest....We'd rather be in the middle of the ocean covered with bloody fish heads with sharks around...I am scared that my wife would cheat I would look like a fool...When men divorce we tend to get the short end of the stick...Men work hard all their life and when they divorce you have to give her half???
2006-11-23 13:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to make a commitment, they probably aren't as serious as women are anyway unless they ask to marry you
2006-11-23 13:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because after the divorce they don't want to get thrown out of their house, get taken to the cleaners, and be prevented by the ex-wife from seeing his kids.
2006-11-23 19:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason why some broads just won't say yes to every yahoo that asks her; they aren't the one.
2006-11-23 12:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were probably married once already.
2006-11-23 12:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by justme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋