Look at the world, somewhere in the world there is a perfect person for everyone. Weather they are 10 miles away or they are 100,000 miles away. For example: I am in the US and if you were in Canada, and we found interests in each other and things worked out then I would consider traveling to be with you. Not always can you find that perfect person around the corner.
2006-11-23 12:41:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look at the world, somewhere in the world there is a perfect person for everyone. Weather they are 10 miles away or they are 100,000 miles away. For example: I am in the US and if you were in Canada, and we found interests in each other and things worked out then I would consider traveling to be with you. Not always can you find that perfect person around the corner.
Okay then whats the best way to find that special person that we are all looking for?
2006-11-23 13:07:16 · update #1
i do not think your wrong. it would really be very lucky if our next door neighbor is the perfect partner for us, unfortunately that doesn't happen too often. if i found 'the one' for me and he happens to be in the other side of the world, i'll move anytime and anywore for a shot at happiness and true love.
2006-11-23 12:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a bunch of romantics!
This is the silliest notion ever created and it is the cause of so much heartache, divorce, screwed up families, and abandoned children.
You are not WRONG for thinking this...just caught up in the romanticism of our times.
There isn't just one "perfect" person...there are probably 10s or even 100s of "perfect" people out there for you. The problem, of course, is the word "perfect". That's a loaded word and it rarely means "without flaw". I don't think that any one really believes that any person out there is without flaw.
So, if I may be so bold, what you are REALLY asking is: Isn't there one person out there somewhere that would fit into my level of tolerance in all of the romantic areas that are important to me, and isn't it likely that they are not just around the corner, but likely to be somewhere distant from where I am?
THAT I can agree with, and, no, you are not WRONG in thinking that.
But, this idea of "one perfect person...somewhere...out there" is just plain NOT TRUE. It's not true and it is futile to believe such a notion because there is NO ONE TRULY PERFECT PERSON FOR YOU ANYWHERE IN THE UNIVERSE.
Now, stop pining away for little miss (or mr.) doesn't-exist and start dating as many women (or men) as possible to find someone that you can live with for the rest of your life. And, while s/he may not be around the corner, s/he is also not likely to be located all that far away from you.
Circulate!
2006-11-23 13:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, your not wrong to think like this. I have been married for 30yrs and i believe that at the time of our marage and for many years after, we were as close to perfect as you could get. The trick is too find some one that is perfect for ALL OF YOUR LIFE. That is all most imposible. The only thing we can count on in this world is that we will pay taxes, things will always be changing and that one day, we will die. The rest is in the hands of the gods. So all i can say is to try and find that perfect partner that suits you now because take my word for it, your partner may not suit you later in life as you both change. And in saying that. You may not suit your partner later.
Hope i was some help
Loza
2006-11-23 13:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Loza W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On one hand, I think if you find a person who completes you and they don't live nearby, you absolutely should do what you can to be with them. On the other hand, I think sometimes we spend so much time looking for our mind's image of the "perfect person" or for "the person I was meant to be with", that we miss wonderful opportunities in our own back yards. If there is one person we're meant to be with, then "fate" will lead our paths to cross. But if there are many people with whom we can be ecstatically happy, we have to be open to it happening. When I was young, I searched for "the love of my life." I had undoubtedly crossed paths with my eventual beloved dozens of times, but never noticed. When we were introduced by a mutual friend, he was completely not the person I thought I was fated for. There wasn't "the instant perfect bond" because "he's not THE ONE". But we shared a very warm relationship that simply grew and grew. We've been married for 25 years now, and I love him more each day-- more than I thought I could ever love someone. So make sure you're not looking over your beloved's shoulder for "Mr. or Ms. Right."
2006-11-23 13:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Grace Under Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually young people like to think as you do. We find that there are many people who could be very good for you. The way it works is to meet someone who has a majority of qualities that are important to you and similar values and outlook on life, some one who is at a place in her life to move forward and who has the maturity to communicate well . She must have self esteem.
It is love , care, respect and commitment that lead to the ideal relationship for you.
God may lead you to possibilities, you do the rest. Choose what you know to be best for you.
2006-11-23 16:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're wrong. I'm not certain that there is a perfect person for everyone, but if you meet someone who doesn't live close to you and you feel a connection, then it certainly merits trying to work things out.
2006-11-23 12:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong I would agree and your right if the right one did come along and you know it you would move to be closer to her or her you as you said its not always you find the right one so when you do you make your move..
as far as you saying where you could find such a person thats the secret my dear . if we knew everyone would be with there perfect match would'n't theymany don't find nor want to go through all that so they settle.
2006-11-23 20:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me, why do you think so many people go online??? Or dating services??? And yes, you will never find that perfect person, but, it would be nice to find someone that you have a few similiar interests with.
2006-11-23 13:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure the odds are in favor that there is someone for everyone. But the odds of finding that person is even higher. Nobody is perfect.
2006-11-23 12:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are an even number of ppl in this world, because god made the worlds people in pairs. Hope wutevr caused u to ask this question works out
2006-11-23 21:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋