I want to talk to my ex, but he wont speak with me. I want to warn him about something and he won't listen...

Question

I miss my ex soo much, I am a very spiritual person and i truely do feel that we are destined and supposed to
be together. He knows as well as i do that we are soulmates and what he is currently doing right now in his life is not correct. I love him and he has loved me for 10 years we were together our families our bodies our minds he hasn't spoken to me in four months but his family still contact me. what should i do i want to talk to him. however he surrounded by many negative people who only add fuel to the fire and don't want to see us together. I'm afraid to approach him. I have sleepless nights and crazy dreams at night i need some help can someone please help!

Answer 1

Why do you need to warn him about anything?? The way l see it, he has made it perfectly clear that he no longer wants you in his life. Is there more to this story that you have not told us ?? What makes you think that what he is doing now is so wrong ?? Perhaps his family should butt out and leave him be. He is a grown man and l'm sure he is quite capable of looking after himself. The best thing you could do is leave him alone for now before he starts to really hate you for trying to interfere in his life and just be there for him if ever he decides he needs your help. Forget about him for now, no more sleepless nights or bad dreams, you can't help someone if they don't feel they need it.

Answer 2

you can't make a man do anything they don't want too. So your best bet is to just let him go.. If he is out doing all these things and refusing to speak with you actions speak louder then words.... seems he doesn;t want to be with you but his family wants you together stop listen to his family and find out what he wants and unless you approach him you never will know...... so jump and try if he shoots you down face to face move on and be happy with someone else.. if he wants you help him get away from the negative and back to the positive. Good luck

Answer 3

it is hard to give up on someone we love, but don't expect them to listen to us, after they have left us. he odviously has met someone else, and isn't open to us anymore, their mind is closed to anything we might have to say to them. yes the sleepless nights, and bad dreams, how well i recall those days, but there was not a thing i could do, or say, that would make him come home to me, the other woman just had too much power. as long as u focus on him, and continue to have expectations, the dreams and sleeplessness will continue. back off, don't talk to his family, in the end they will take his side anyway, and stop talking to u. have to allow him to make his own choices, good or bad, he wouldn't believe anything u would tell him anyway. best to distance yourself, don't talk about or to him, try and move on a bit. just causing u heartache, and upset, and alot of stress. he isn't going to listen to u, even if u are right. he doesn't remember the last 10 years, mine didn't. all he could see was her, and the marriage we had meant nothing to him, it was almost exacly as if i never existed. so sorry for your heartache.

Answer 4

i think of that if she broke up with you so suddenly then there substitute right into a rationalization for it. i do no longer choose for to assert it yet there might have been somebody else on her ideas, or in her existence without you understanding it. human beings do no longer only smash up with human beings out of nowhere, there had to have been a reaosn or a minimum of something development as much because it. you may ask her why she extremely broke up with you, like the real answer. If she isn't prepared to tell then you definately she is toying with you, circulate on tootse... you will locate somebody extra suitable in due time. Goodluck.

Answer 5

sounds like he doesn't want to be found by you.. Okay you have your strong beliefs about him and your his soul mate etc.. perhaps he doesnt' freel the same way but your not letting go of this. so best for him is to stay farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr away from you..

nothing worse than a woman who can't hear the answer no . i know and truely believe in your mmind you think you are right. but you can't force someoen to see your side and he obivously doesn't want to hear what you have to say. let him be.thats the best hting you could do for him and if you truely love him as you say you do you will do this. you only bring him more pain and being upset badgering hunting him down looking like a weak wounded animal. step aside my dear. and keep your dignity

Answer 6

you sound like some 16 year old with her first crush." our bodies our minds our families we are soul mates. get a glue girl if all that was true you would be together and your not.he has told you he does not want to talk to you. if you have some thing that's so important that he needs to be warned about then pass it on to him by one of his family members i to think of myself as a spiritual person so let me put this in the most spiritual words i can "let it go if its meant to be it will come back to you if it doesn't then it was never meant to be"

Answer 7

You need to let go and move on. Have you considered therapy?
You are obsessing on your ex who is an ex for a reason. If you were soulmates do you really think he would avoid you? His life is his own and you can't save him. Just remember that-----you cannot save anyone who doesn't want to be saved.

Answer 8

Loving someone is easy but not having them love you back is the hard part.
Leave it to God and if you are destined to be together then God will do it. Don't make things more complicated, pray to God, tell Him how you feel, what you want. GOD said "If you abide in ME and ME in you anything you ask in my name shall be giving to you." GOD also said, HE will give you the desires of your heart.
So just live your life completely for GOD and things have no choice but to work out in your "FAVOUR". God Bless You Richly!

Answer 9

Send him an e-mail. Well, if he has access. If not try snail mail. Sometimes a letter is all you need to make your point. However, if he was as serious about you like you say, you would not have such an issue contacting him. Are you sure you are not stalking him?

Answer 10

All u really can do is try and tell him how u feel but if he's telling u to go away, then "go away" u can't make some1 be w/u. If it's meant to be he will figure that out in time. U can't be obbsessed w/him. That will only push him away further.