how much sex do you have?

Question

In a day?
a week?
I love sex, but my b/f doesnt seem to want me too often. Like maybe 2-4 times a week. We used to have sex about 1-3 times a day. We've been together for about 7 months, and we are fairly young, he is 25, I'm 22. Maybe he lost his desire for me?? I find myself fairly attractive, and he says so too. I feel upset and sad about it. Is he bored with me?? Please answer nicely and thanks in advance.

Answer 1

I know how you feel. I'm pregnant, and I've put on a whole lot of weight! so things are a little different now. My husband and I now have sex once a night...if even that! I feel completely undesirable!
But in your case, I don't think that he's lost the desire for you. I think that he's just settled in a comfortable state right now. That happens in a lot of relationships. When they start out, it's all exciting and you can't seem to keep your hands off eachother, then you settle into the comfort zone after a while. I think that that may just be the case. How about trying new exciting things together? Like trying new things in the bedroom, going out on the town and having fun with just the two of you, just do new and different things. See if that might spice things up some. I wish you both the best. God bless.

Answer 2

Twice a week tops. We used to be like you guys but after a while life kinda gets in the way . I'm sure he hasn't lost his desire for you and still thinks you're hot, but there is a certain "honeymoon" period to every relationship and once that is done then you kinda get in a groove. Nothing to be sad about. It's still pretty frequent compared to a lot of couples. Maybe talk with him about it and find out where he is at on the subject and let him know your concerns. I know it's an awkward conversation but being open is always the best answer. Don't feel self conscious about it and good luck!

Answer 3

Good Lord! 1-3 times per DAY??? Geez.
My fiancee is a senior in college, and I graduated, so we don't see e/o that often, but when we were together every day, even in the beginning months of our relationship, we didn't have sex that often! Don't feel he's bored with you- maybe he can't keep up! Try some toys if you want it more than he does...

Answer 4

you know having sex with your bf and giving yourself to the outmost, surely your bf will be able to lost his desire , why? because you give all the ultimate. i know youre young and aggressive, the point is you didnt forsee what will happen next, you didnt think that someday your bf might spoil your relationship because you're giving the desires he wants, the urge of willingness and because you also wants to have sex with him, he took all the advantages, until he satisfied himself and now he is fed up, sorry to say these words. i think he is bored and he might try somebody else for new adventure. hope this will give you a lesson. fullfilling the desires or urgesness is not only for physical, take note after the physical fullfillment, next is the emotional satisfaction. now if both of you or you alone felt the emptiness, it follows the boredom, now if the boredom is in between to the relationship, that will be the end. i would advice you to have a little reservation for yourself, dont give it all, give some mysteries about yourself, dont lay all your cards, even tho how much you wanted him or love him.

Answer 5

I am into a 13 year long relationship, and for us is once a week
sometimes it is normal that as time goes by the frequency decreases.
I´ll say 2-4 times a week is pretty normal

Answer 6

well; i believe you need to do different thing in different way and probably in different places as well.
i 'm 27 years old and i used to have sex with my x-girlfreind 2-5 times a day for about a year and half till she asked me to find someone else to have sex with...lol
but to be honest! sometimes when i'm thinking seriously about somthing or in a strees. i feel i don't want it at all.
So i believe it depands on the person and his mod.
if ur b/f is sooo sexy and he is in a good mod . i believe it's normal to do it 3 times a day(since u& ur b/f is young and in a good health).However you have to know ur b/f how sexy he is?or is there any thing keeps his mind busy?.

wish u all the best.

Answer 7

He has a desire for you but young lady it is'nt as easy for a guy to have sex the way you want it.Slow down and injoy him for him not his sexual abilitys..!-3 times a day would kill me.**** 1-3 times a month would.Course i'm alot older.Take it as it come's.No pune ment.

Answer 8

Not nearly enough as i would like damn it!! LOL... Guys usually dont get bored as long as they get the sex, maybe hes not happy with the relationship and where it is going, i had the same problem with sex, it was like that for mein the beggining too, but now is about the same as you too.... but i want more LOL Maybe we are just nymphos?? LOL talk to your man...

Answer 9

The question is: Do you want him to want sex to make you feel good about yourself or do you actually enjoy the sex itself???

I had sex with my ex 3 times a day for a year or so and then it dropped off. I had the same question as you.

Then I got told that women give sex to get love like men give love to get sex...

Think about it - they buy flowers and take you to dinner to get laid and women put-out to keep them at home instead of out with the guys!!!

Answer 10

He may be bored, if its routine. Have you tried to do things differently. He may be stressed but you need to talk with him about it. Unfortunately, he may be used to you and bored with you or he may be seeing someone else. I am sure you contemplated these thoughts as well, but before you jump to anything try talking to him about it first and go from there and if it is the latter, remember you are young and he is NOT irreplaceable-you can find another and please use condoms.