16 yrs. old, high school, 10 th grade, I'm in sports, have a boyfriend, listen to anything
2006-11-23 12:00:42 · 55 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HAHAHAHA (I'm 19 so I'm not an adult yelling at you)!
NO simple as that! A relationship is completly different once you move out of the house. I'm in college now and can't even imagine how much things I will find out about myself and what I want in a relationship once I graduate. Then there's landing a good job, which could be anywhere in the United States or even overseas. Trust me no matter how much you love your bf, you will be glad you don't get married young. I guarentee you! E-mail me if you want to talk about it over msn or something.
2006-11-23 12:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by JoNaThAn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself some time and live a little. You may be too young to consider marriage because when you do get older and more mature, you'd eventually regret taking the "big step" so soon and feel like you actually had no life. I know many young kids who regret it and they're not so content with the path they are walking on now. Struggling to make it by and yet trying to support the little ones. Give it a few more years, than you can start thinking about what you really want. As for the time being, concentrate on finishing school and living the life of and adolescent.
2006-11-23 12:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are WAY too young. You have a good idea though, but do not cheat yourself or your future husband by not learning more about life. You see, life is not all about playing sports and having a good time or even studying. Its more about having sound judgemental skills, and a good paying job. Yes, women need good paying jobs too, because only a manipulative, controlling and demeaning man would want a woman who cannot support herself. You are developing some good qualities now, however with maturity the will be great. Heck, by your resume`, I am willing to take you up on your offer when you turn twenty five. That is, if Mr. Lucky doesnt snatch up before 12:02a on your twenty fifth birthday! Well, I know that if I showed up at 12:01 you would probably say, "give me a minute," at 12:02 I all ready have.. :--)
2006-11-23 12:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. as people age they mature, develop, and more importantly, change. More studies come out every year showing that the younger a couple marries, the more likely they will divorce. At 16 an individual is not yet fully developed in their sense of self and are more likely to give up when the going gets tough. That being said, I married young (20) and am happily still with him after all these years. But that is the exception not the rule.
2016-05-23 01:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not,at this stage you can't even take care of yourself.You don't own a home or have a apartment,no job or a part time job,nor a bank account.Most of all your mind is not mature enough to handle making that kind of decision.Don't throw your whole life away just because you think your in love.And i pray your not pregnant,or thinking of becoming pregnant because then you'll really be jumping out of the frying pan,into the fire.Be smart,stay a kid for as long as you can cause when you do grow up,you can't go back.
2006-11-23 12:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First before I answer I did have an early marraige as a nineteen year old boy and it didn't work out. Soon after the marrage we had a child and couldn't aford it. We had to turn to her parents for help! I felt so humiliated, her parents all ready had a low opinion of me and I didn't want it any worse. One year after we had a divorce and I see her ocationly. So my answer for you is you shouldn't get married just yet. You should wait untill you are finantialy and emotianly mature.
2006-11-23 12:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO absolutley not U still have a lot of growing up 2 do and a lot more people 2 meet in the world Just take things slow I don't understand why young kids r such in a rush 2 grow up Take your time your only young once
2006-11-23 12:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not it would be a big mistake you would be cutting yourself short on your possobilities and also you are 16 you shouldn't think about marriage until atleast 25 so that you can do some of the things that you want to do.
2006-11-23 12:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is stupid...is like ur asking, "AM I SUPPOSE TO PEE IN THE TOILET?"
If u are married, do have sufficient income to support urself and ur bf/husband. Do u even have a job that is stable enough to land urself a decent house. Dun tell me u gonna have kids the next day. C'mon think over. ARE YOU REALLY READY?
2006-11-23 13:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful! I thought many times I was in love young. I did not get married until I was 27 and so glad I waited. I had a lot of fun just hanging out and getting all that crazy stuff out of me.
2006-11-23 12:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by spence6209@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋