I have this friend she was the light of my day. shes the only person in the world that i could not get bored with and i get bored very easily about girls.she was my best friend the only girl best friend i have ever had and shes the most simplest girl that i have ever met and i love her but a while back we lost communication and then i found out through my best friend she is getting married to some guy and i never had the chance of telling her i loved her and i regret it every single day of my life and i just cant get over her!! everyone that saw us together and saw the chemistry we had said that we were perfect for each other but the fear of rejection never allowed me to say what was on my mind and my heart!! and it sucks cause i can talk to anybody but her opinion mattered to me over any person so... i really am grinding to either get over her or get her to be with me but i really dont want to ruin her engagement or love life!! help me please!!
2006-11-23 11:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by borikua79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yea thats deep, but she obviously loves this guy, and u have to think about whats best for her, and apparently she thinks this is best, just try and get over her. If it was meant to be between ya'll then it will happen regardless. but i wouldn't tell her because that would make her feel uncomfortbale and maybe get u in a fight with the b/f. there are plenty of other girls that will be just like her. trust me!
2006-11-23 11:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by tim8laura238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, you sometimes have one chance in life. I'm only 19 but i know when i want something i have to go get it. I met a girl and i love her but she was here but she lives elsewhere but I'm going to get her. Sometimes its not about how everyone else feels and making people happy. Sometimes you have to do these things for yourself. Just remember once you have come to the end of your time you don't want to be sitting down moping, i didn't do that this the other. You want to say i got her, i achieved this and raised beautiful kids. My advice to you would be not to give up and just step up to the task and tell her. You don't have to make a huge scene about it you just have to sit down and tell her. You seem like a harmless guy and very down to earth in your thoughts and i know you can do this. But do it for yourself, not for anyone else. Be your own man, that is what you stand for. You know all that stuff about there are more girls out there, true but not for certain people and why force yourself when you want something else. You need this girl you don't just want her. Think of the hurt it will cause you and you will be forced to move on and probably lose a friendship either way because she will have commitments. Go for it and make her yours, sometimes its better to suit your needs. I wish you all the luck i know how it feels to an extent!
2006-11-23 19:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is not an easy one. Personally, if I were you I would either phone or write to her. You need an answer or you will think about her the rest of your life with many many unanswered questions and "what if's". Don't go through life like this. Maybe she felt the same way and couldn't find you again.
Take the chance and find her and tell her how you feel. Obviously you think she is worth it and so are you. Good luck!
2006-11-23 20:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to respect the engagement. You can't tell her how you really feel. There's a reason why it never happened. I would be willing to bet that there's another girl that you haven't even met yet that's going to be just as awesome and even better for you because next time you won't hestitate to tell someone how you really feel about them. Chalk this one up to experience and move forward. Next time you'll be ready. You have incredible character and there's tons of girls that would appreciate that.
2006-11-23 19:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to tell her..... i mean, what will u be ruining? if she gets to be with who she wants then thats all that matters. You never know my friend, if she had or has the same feelings for u. I only say this cos i know of a similar situation..... but u should get it out.... but please think to urself that you only r goin to tell her, but dont think of it as telling her to get her... u know? let urself know that ur getting something off ur chest, and thats the only reason... but if she doesnt respond dont think much about it, just carry on with ur head up..... if she dont respond in a good way, then she's not the one for u.......good luck in life!
2006-11-23 20:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by lustmord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best advice go watch the movie A LOT LIKE LOVE, and you'll find your answer
2006-11-23 19:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by che_karlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man up drink up or find someone else
2006-11-23 19:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by intoxicaligist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spank her butt.
2006-11-23 19:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by tom s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋