infact i've never got any girl friend...i'm an indian,n lesbianism is an illegal act in india..im 15 f ...im ok looking then too i find girls are not intrested in me..ok if it is illegal but atleast some1 wud hav appproached to me till nw,n i wud have become an expert lesb...
i can't express clearly in front of everybody that im a les,othrwise it will turn into a negative...everybody will run away from me n will make my fun ,insults etc..which i can't tolerate..can anybody help to get me my dream girl...??how n what should i do to get the lesb..attracted themselves towards me n *** to propose me
i like 1 girl also bt shes a strait...wat can i do if i'd like her to be my girl....bt it doesn't matter me if 'the one' is she or somebody else..
2006-11-23 11:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by kawal 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dont be in a hurry. You are still very young. It is not worth getting into trouble at such an early age. You need to wait until you get involved sexually with anyone. I am not sure where you are located. but hopefully you will not get into trouble for anythign illegal.
2006-11-26 16:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by meldorhan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an Indian lesbian living in India where it's illegal? It sounds to me that coming out might put you in danger. Is there a possibility of you eventually going to college or moving when you are older? I came out in high school and it was a mess - I wish I had just waited a couple of years until I had a support system. I'd keep it my only little secret until I felt I was safe. You're very young and though I know you have strong feelings this might be the safest thing to do. Don't worry, you have the rest of your life to be a lesbian! Good luck.
2006-11-23 16:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by jane7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone who straight into a lesbian, so if you friend is straight... accept them for that. You are in a tough situation because you have to keep it in a closet. You will not be able to tell anyone and that means finding someone of like mind impossible. The options that normally would be available to someone in such a situation is to find underground meeting places or explore internet dating. However since you only 15... that option is not open to you. You will have to put sexual relationships out of your mind, and live your life, until you are in a position where you can better express yourself. Of course, you can make friends.... and sometimes you might find a couple that are curious about such things, or are into them too... look for suttle hints in the matter and what they look at.... etc.
As for anything saying you are living in sin.... tell them they living in the wrong century.
2006-11-23 11:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonlord Warlock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because in certain areas being an out member of the LGBT communities can lead to one's death? That can be a reason for some people to be in the closet.
2006-11-23 17:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus.
I hated being 15. It was hard enough being straight and just having the "normal" family problems. I don't know jack about attracting the same sex- I've never tried it. Good luck, and ignore the person ahead of me and their bull. Do whatever makes you happy. Good luck.
2006-11-23 11:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋