With thier obnoxious speech and behavior? How do they expect Society to
be comfortable with them, when they are obviously not comfortable with themselves?
Don't blame the critics for a lack of self-respect. We ALL have to mature
and rise above such childishness!
2006-11-23 11:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by THE NEXT LEVEL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If your little rant was to show an attractive alternative to our behavior, then your example leaves a lot to be desired.
Society is not monolithic, and to clue you in we are part of society too. Segments of society will always find fault with gay people, and lets put the onus where it belongs...on those that are uncomfortable. Their inability to deal with different people with respect due all human beings surely does not lay at our doorstep, but at yours.
You base your rather crude and simplistic views on caricatures of who you think gay people are, not on reality. You have blinded your eyes to any chance of meeting anyone who does not fit this rather silly image you have of us. You see a few people you hold in disdain and paint us all with the same brush. If this same standard was applied to you and whatever group you belong to, you'd howl like a stuck pig. Your argument and your perspective falls apart like a stack of cards, because we all know (yes even you know deep down) that your argument is in it self the epitome of childishness, with the only difference being you seem to articulate better than most haters..
Before you instruct others to mature, look at yourself and look at this question, and ask yourself, is this what a grown sane adult would write? Is this the most a reasonable human being can come up with as an argument of persuasion? The answer is of course is a resounding "No"...... The pity is, despite some intelligence you have stopped learning, and I am afraid your smugness in being a bit smarter than most haters has resulted in your own arrested development.
2006-11-23 11:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 12⤊ 1⤋
We aren't comfortable with ourselves??? Oh come on! Why do you think there are things as Pride Marches and such? One word: Proud. The people who stand on your side of the argument are those who believe a old and outdated fairytale somehow justifies whatever they say or do. Mature and rise above such childishness? Maybe you need to read your question again. I somehow think you have a lot of maturing and eye opening to do.
2006-11-23 19:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mooks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, another person who doesn't know what they are talking about.
If obnoxious speech and behavior is a 'perversion" then many religious groups are as equally perverted as those they oppose.
Being comfortable with yourself has no bearing on how others treat you. I'm quite comfortable with myself and have to deal with people who are extremely uncomfortable with the very idea that I love someone that has the same genitals that I do.
Maturity? When you get some, let me know. You don't show any at all by stepping up just to criticize others.
2006-11-23 19:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This sort of diatribe is insulting, it constitutes harassment to the gay participants, the broad generalizations and stereotypes are definitely a slur, and furthermore you haven't really asked a question.
You made a statement, then posted a question mark at the end, and then delivered a lengthy insult to gay people.
In other words, you have violated yahoo answers TOS.
2006-11-23 20:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well you first ("rise above such childishness") ... stop acting so self-righteous. Or, maybe this is just a symptom of your own internalized homophobia -- so, come out of the closet!
2006-11-23 19:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by SB 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I used to be put off by guys who acted "nellie" or otherwise conformed to gay stereotypes. I felt that it somehow reflected upon me as a gay man. Then I ended up becoming good friends with one of those "nellie" guys, and realized not only that he was a terrific person, but that how someone else chooses to express himself is really none of my business. I wish I'd learned that a lot sooner.
2006-11-23 21:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude you should ask your self ......... Are you ready for this?...........Why am I even in an Answers Room labeled LGBT . Let me help you out with that one. Dude your a closeted Pickle Puffer. Its cool now days to call it Bi curios.Dont worry sister we have unlocked the door you SO COME ON OUT.Peace out for now . PS call me though if ya wanna get yo swerve on
2006-11-23 20:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by mattahew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, WE would be more secure wit ourselves if YOU ALL did not harass us. Oh, and btw, 73% of gay men earn more than straight men, so look who needs to get their act together!
2006-11-23 19:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Randizzle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You mean obnoxious speech like yours?
2006-11-23 19:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by BiyGuy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a bisexual man who happens to be g0y I have to say you have touched on the reason I am not gay. I do not identify with the people who are outragiously gay and stereotypically gay. G0ys abhor effeminate behavior and anal sex.
2006-11-23 21:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋