he's a divorcee from an arranged marriage and im a widow.as we get to know each other, he asked me to send him a sexy pic of myself my question is "what is real feelings towards me",will it be alright if i agree,will this help in our longdistance relationship...
i know its hard to build a relationship on the net,but the first time we meet we connect. .Oh he asked apology if sometimes the conversation became intimate coz of his problems b-4 his wife,he told me he got to asked pemission first b-4 he touched her and he misses a lot coz they only do it 2-3 times a month,and that im blessed coz i've married for love and have a good relationship b-4 with my husband.Now he plans to visit me on feb and get married on oct or may."is this real", would i allow myself to go through with it?"
2006-11-23 10:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by mina d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey if you have to ask permission from stranger who don't even know you imagine what this man can do to you. you will be putty in his hand. You have to decide he's not holding a gun to your head please people where are your brains.
I don't mean to sound cold here but seriously you should't have to ask if youshould marry a man like this. first of all you have to date him one date and now marriage light balb here right?
also is he just looking for a free green card, or cause your a widow you may have some money laying around he plays on your lonliness. a man will tell you anything you want to hear. I would continue dating him more get to know the guy you would'nt rush and buy a car right on the spot would you you do your homework read up about it the saftey the engine the price you shiop around so why would you take your marriage to himm so serious and wonder. if you should. you should definatly slow down here. and he already knows your a push over so you better get on the ball and fast or he'll really do a snow job on youmy dear.
good luck
2006-11-23 21:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. Just be careful. I met many men on the net. Some were serious and some were not. The one I have now we met over a year ago and we got married in August of this year. He was and is exactly as I thought he would be.
2006-11-23 18:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of my niece got caught up in this same scenario.
When they finally were supposed to get together, "his sister" showed up instead. Eventually she figured out the guy was a figure of the 'sister's' imagination and the sister was posing as the guy the whole time, she was a dyke.
TRUE STORY.
My advice, date real live people.
2006-11-23 19:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Myrmaad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is out of the question. You have tons of ground work to do before this thought could surface for attention. Do not be lured in to something that you will regret for years to come.
2006-11-23 21:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls dont contact him again or just be internet pals cos it is easy to lie when u are not face-face with eachother,he could even send u a fake picture,it is possible for u two to connect very well but can u stand it if u realize all he has said was lies?
2006-11-23 19:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by tersy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very careful. Never trust any man who wants you to send them a sexy picture.
2006-11-23 18:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only fools rush in. Don't give in to easy. Get to really know him first.
2006-11-23 19:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the sexual predators on the Internet?
2006-11-23 18:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you checked that show Unsolved Mysteries or that other show where they profile criminals ? Go the other way. Run...
2006-11-23 19:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a life? I why would he want to marry a fat slob like you.
2006-11-23 19:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by KrisTina Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋