you are in the middle of your hot session and he grabs your hair from your back and says "your sister is better?" Would you get mad right there and then??? My husband said that it is one of his fantasy. Or am I missing a lot of things here???
2006-11-23 10:16:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay, if he admits this to you and the rest of his behavior is cool then I think that you should allow him. It's an extremely intimate and dark passion and If I were you (and I truly understand that i'm not - first off i'm a guy) but if i were you I would appreciate that he's allowed you that far into the recesses of his passion. Maybe he trusts you to understand that he would never seriously contemplate the issue and your sister is not the same thing as his fantasy of her.
If I were him I would wish for you to understand this. If I were you, I would give him a clear message that 1 I love you, and I'm happy that we're close enough to share this but 'watch it' there is a line that marks 'too far' and you're close to it.
I think you're missing a lot of things: fantasy is nothing like reality.
it really depends on more about how he is and how much you're willing to allow or forgive in your intimacy. My first thought is that he loves you and trusts you very much and he may not deserve a bollocking for realeasing his fantasy to you.
If he feels that safe around you it's clearly your fault. You're probably quite good with him.
But if you're pissed, don't hide it: maybe do it back to him so he sees it from your perspective?
2006-11-23 11:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah, I would put a stop to things right there and then and ask him to explain himself. If he is having an affair with your sister, and it sounds like he is, the sooner you know about it the better. Whether he is or not, there is no reason to say something like that, and one of you needs to go sleep in the other room until an apology is given. Good Luck!!
2006-11-23 18:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately get mad. It goes to show that he's eyeing your sister or has already had her. Id watch it if I were you. Fantasy or no fantasy you just dont go there.
2006-11-23 18:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH I would get mad. WTF??? I would slap him silly. If hes saying something like that, then that just says that he did something with your sister! If hes having fantasies of your sister, then somethings bound to happen. Whether he does something with your sister, or with someone else. Keep a good eye on your man. Get rid of him if he does do something. No woman should have to go through all that.
2006-11-23 20:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch! Wrong time and place. The right time is never unless you have shared fantasies before and have limits. It's quite UNCOOL and will make for uncomfortable family gatherings.
2006-11-23 18:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r missing the fact that ur husband has probably screwed ur sister all ready. And if my husband were to say that to me he would be out on his a**.
2006-11-23 18:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! That isent normal! If he said it like he meant it, then he might of already done it with her. I dont know, keep an really close eye on ur sister and on him.
2006-11-23 18:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give his a*s the curb he said your sister is better and the only way for him to know that is if he slept with her. Let him know that you aren't a joker.
2006-11-23 18:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lie! Glad you mentioned everything in the air, your brother is awesome or cousin or his best friend, and just mentioned how much bigger they are compare to him! Return the burn insults that he just did to you, and cut him off sex altogether! It just made me mad just reading this! He is trying to crush you emotional, just return the favor by crushing him and his manhood!
2006-11-23 18:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no that is one of the worst things to say. Does he honestly think its sexy to say something like that? That is such a turn off_
2006-11-23 18:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋