im a 17 year old girl and i know i like guys. but lately ive been wondering if i could be bisexual. i find other girls attractive, mainly one girl though. i sometimes get kind of turned on when i see them topless or whatever too. the thing is im only really attracted to a single chick. but i cant see myself in a relationship with another girl, probabaly because im much more strongly attracted to guys. i honestly am so confused. help please??
2006-11-23 10:14:15 · 17 answers · asked by show_um_whats_good 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just follow your feelings...if u feel strongley for men...go wit them! Just follow your heart and everything well wourk itself out! :)
2006-11-23 10:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people are bisexual and we are constantly bombed with sexy images of both sexes. We, as humans, appreciate beauty being male or female (though most deny it).
Remember at the end you will be attracted to a person, not to a stereotype, regarless of the sex. When you are with this person you will find out if you are bisexual or not.
2006-11-23 10:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Oh_cielos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to me. i used to really like this guy at my school, but never went out with him. This year he is dating this girl who i now think is attractive. I love a few girls, and want to have a relationship b/c a relationship with guys kinda creeps me out. Like this one guy i thought i liked asked me out and i got kinda creeped out. But i AM attracted to guys. Many guys, some girls. Maybe you should go out with her (if she's ok with that) and see if you can get into a deep relationship with her, if so, you may be bi, if you cant stand the thought, you are straight.
cheers and good luck!!
2006-11-23 12:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know how your feeling. But you seem to be to worried about it thought. I know i never saw myself with a girl, but almost a year after i moved to Florida I meet this girl and had feeling for her like i did with guys but stronger. After youth group one day we were sitting waiting for my dad to pick us up out side church and i just had this weird feeling. That night we talked it over and started dating. We have Been going out for 9 months on the 27th of this month. I suggest u talk to this girl and get to know her and see how your feeling go from there and then talk to her about them and maybe you to are meant to be.
Best of Luck
2006-11-23 13:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Miss. Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just admire the way the girl looks. The way her body looks attracts you and you idolize the girl. It doesnt mean your bi. If you were you would want to start a relationship with her.
2006-11-23 10:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the labels and just go with what you feel. Corny I know. =) Stop worrying about do I like boys, or do I like girls etc. Maybe you should ask yourself do I like this person? Can I be with this person? And since you said you couldn't see yourself with a girl, well ...
2006-11-23 10:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by shy_vi3t_gur1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age most are attracted to atleast one member of the same sex.. now if you said you were attracted to many of them i would think your bi but just one or maybe two .. hell no girl your just normal and your hormones are kicking into over drive
2006-11-23 10:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you label yourself as is irrelevant.
just do what you want to do. if you have feelings for someone of the same sex, then go with it. you don't have to categorize yourself. but think, there is no right way to be bisexual, it's just if you consider yourself to be.
2006-11-23 11:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are bicuriuos, but I think of girls like that too..so I think it happens to alot of girls.
2006-11-23 13:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by ceecee800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look at a girl and get horny then you are definetly a bisexual.
2006-11-23 10:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋