I have liked one of my best guy friends for 3 years. I know that he has and i'm pretty sure stil likes me but wont come out and admit it. There are times when he acts so weird around me that I cant stand it. Then there are other times when he's around his friends (their my friends too) that he doesn't seem to care. Then a couple weeks ago he was basically acting like he was my boyfriend or somthing. he always goes through these phases where he seems so in love, then it dies down and then picks up again and i'm to the point of screaming. If theres any advice or thoughts on this I would realy appriciate it. thanks!
2006-11-23 09:55:49 · 7 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
1) How old are you and this guy?
If you are in your early teens then he may not be ready to settle down to any type of commitment.
2) Maybe he's getting mixed signals from you?
When he's acting like your bf do you reciprocate? (do you act like his gf?)
3) do you want him to be your bf?
If you want him to be your bf then say something. Communication is THE most important thing in any relationship (friend or bf). when he's in "bf" mode ask him about what he's doing?
4) go girl!
2006-11-23 10:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by iamhermansen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys just act different with their girl when their with their buds. I should know...my husband still does it.!They think they gotta keep their cool. That's just how guys are. I think he's just in a confused state right now. He may just not know what he wants. Maybe you should just be straight with him (expecially if things keep going like this) He may just be fickle. It's a known fact...guys just take a little longer than girls to mature.
2006-11-23 11:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by mommymommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world, hun. lol well i think he likes u...hes just a teen so he goes through phases like that...ask HIS friends if he says anything to the about it. if they dont, ask him urself. just put urself out there and hope he responds. just remember, ur only a teen and u have time for other relationships
2006-11-23 11:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your obviously really young, hang in there one day you will be old enough for a real man and these games wont go on.
2006-11-23 09:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by leanda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him...i know on some days i do the same exact things....
2006-11-23 10:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go for it, u never know
2006-11-23 10:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by polkadot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start kissin n s**t
2006-11-23 12:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋