I'm starting to discover how bad i am...
Wow.
It's like i was destined to be alone.
2006-11-23 09:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by falzalnz 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Whoaaaaaaaaaaaa....... where is this coming from??
*smacks HER upside the head* (yes......she's a she. Why she uses gorgeous hunky avatars is beyond me.....but God they are gorgeous to look at!)
Ok.....who said you were bad at relationships? And you are so not destined to be alone. *smacks her head again* You are adorable. You're funny..... you have depth.... you have intelligence.... you've got honesty and DEFINITELY have integrity. And you have more than that...... but I'm stopping with the list. You KNOW what I mean.
May I be so bold as to say.... relationships work and fall into place once we find ourselves. That ole silly line about no one can love us until we love ourselves has a bit of truth in it. You have to understand yourself first. What you need..... what is important to you. Where you are going... how you are going to get there.
Once you do... its amazing how your confidence level goes up. Simply because.... you have focus. Without focus......gosh our mind and goals and wants and needs are scattered all over the place. so we feel like we are failures at relationships merely because we are failures at keeping ourselves together long enough to focus on a relationship. I hope that makes sense in some small way.
The key is......knowing what you want... but knowing WHY you want it. You have to spot what is good and what is good for you. Not just what is before you. You have to go thru some bad experiences as well. The have to have seen the bad to recognize the good.
Please never feel you are destined to be alone. You are destined for such great things. Besides...... you have great people cheering you on. ;)
2006-11-23 10:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Marianne she knows what she's talking about.
I thought you were married for some reason... I actually just fell out of a relationship yesterday, I felt free. I think he and I just weren't meant to be. I think I had a good amount of doubt when I went into the relatioship and didn't give all I had inside me mainly cuz I didn't want to hurt him. In that respect I think I'm not good. But I know that when I find the right person I will be able to and I won't mind losing that "freedom" cuz they'd mean everything to me.
but listen to what I said in the last question I answered for ya. shoot me an e-mail ; )
Happy Thanksgiving by the way.
2006-11-23 19:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by G-gnomegrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound completely normal!
I don't think I'm particularly good with them. But I'm finding the older I get, the easier they seem to be. Maybe it's just a case of understanding myself better? Not too sure, but I imagine relationships will always take a bit of effort.
2006-11-23 17:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Destined to be alone?.....That is ridiculous you are just lookin for the wrong type of girl. Or you havent found her yet. Everyone is on a path.
2006-11-23 17:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by lanilatu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm destined to be alone so i don't even try!
i hate being in a relationship anyway....i feel trapped and vulnerable...
probably because i haven't met the right person...
i'm not in a hurry!i can tell you!
2006-11-23 17:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by Billie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really suck at them! I hardly ever come up with the right things to say, feel the right emotion, or do the right thing... I have accepted my loneliness.
2006-11-23 17:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by misery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup it took alot of blood, sweat and tears (and other bodily fluids) to learn how to be good at relationships, but I think once you have found the right person it is easier
2006-11-23 17:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by loki_43 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I am no good at relationships, I have not had one for over 5 years. :)
2006-11-23 17:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have been married 41 years and that's not too shabby!
2006-11-23 17:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way, you are just a unique person, who know's who they are. There is a match for u out there, just be patient, and sooner or later, you will find them.
2006-11-23 17:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋