2006-11-23 08:36:49 · 29 answers · asked by g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
being gay is natural and it's best to realise it as young as possible because we are born into a certain sexuality. They should come out when they are ready, if someone realises they are gay so youngn they need to talk to a councillor NOT come out, the councillor will take them every step of the way. the child needs care.
2006-11-26 06:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being gay isn't about coming out, it is you. I have brown hair and often try to change it's colour but I am still brown haired.
Accept yourself and who you are and be true to yourself. If you where straight would you feel the need to announce you were straight. As is normal, discuss how you feel about relationships and genders etc with your parents, if that is comfortable for you. if not your parents then a reliable older person.
As with any sexual orientation never do anything you do not feel comfortable about. If it feels creepy it probable is and defineately discuss it with a safe adult.
Unfortunately this is a time of huge changes in your body and mind, which can be terribly confusing, but I am yet to hear someone say to a straight person are you sure, leave it a while!
Take your time, sexual realationships should come from love, friendship and with someone you trust. Please take your time no what orientation you are keep yourself safe. Your age is what makes you vunerable. Take Care as you walk into the next stage of your life.
2006-11-23 09:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by rachel.cox4@btopenworld.com 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter when u come out and the whole point is letting people know that you are comfortable with who you are and if there not willing to accept that then there pritty mean and if they cant accept you for who you are there worth nout like 2 of my family members are gay and they came out from there selves when they were young 1st one was about 12 2nd one was about 15 hope this helps xx
2006-11-26 18:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by ickle16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel comfortable coming out. You may want to wait to tell people until you are a little bit older as many people may feel that you are "too young" to know if you are or not. But do it when you feel that you are ready.
Good Luck to you and Congrats on having the courage to come out.
2006-11-23 08:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are nobody who knows they are homosexual at such an early age as until we mature, which varies for each of us, we have our doubts as to what we are. All sexes have a degree of homosexuality built into us as we are all preformed bi-sexual in the womb, however a single sex orientation develops in which the accepted norm is woman+man. The deviation to this is when a male or female desire the same sex partners, this generally is when the person is mature enough to understand the implications and accept them..
2006-11-23 08:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by tucksie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you knew for sure I would only tell your immediate family, but no one outside the family until you are out of school. Kids in school can be so cruel.
2006-11-23 08:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your are sure then when you are ready.
I told my family I was gay, luckily for me they were cool but I was just dabbling in the opposite sex that's all, I passed that stage a long time ago and have a child, so be sure.
2006-11-23 08:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by pinkytickle 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what I am.Bi or straight.My mom said people had been telling her I like both genders.I told her I didn't and she's all good.So it depends on your parents.If they're like people who think that boys should be with girls and nothing else, wait until you think they can handle it.If they're Okay with that stuff come out to them.
2006-11-23 11:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby Victoria 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could come out to your family at a young age, but i wouldnt come out to everybody a lot of pervy guys out there, dont let anybody take advantage of you, good luck
2006-11-23 13:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Rachel. Good luck
2006-11-24 01:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋