my aunt acts like shew doesn't love me. im young and heart broken. she doesn't tell me she loves me its just bye. i love her and i tell her love you but all she says is okay. she has a new baby and all she does is ecnore me. remember im young i can't deal with this alone.
2006-11-23 08:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, please read over what you type before you post it!!!!! It's so difficult to help you if I can't figure out what you want.
Anywho...
Maybe she just doesn't feel comfortable saying it. For the longest time I had trouble saying "I love you" to my mom and I really do love her it's just really hard for me to say. (Today I say it to her with no problem but it came with practice). Give it time. I know it probably feels as though she doesn't care about you but she does. Just keep telling her and if it really doesn't work then just don't say it out loud to her. You can confront her but it may make the situation that much more awkward for you and her. Good luck and eat a lot of turkey!!! :)
2006-11-23 08:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live with your aunt? Is your aunt your only family? If so, then steel your heart, because the world is full of cynics. But the world is also full of loving people, and you will meet them one day. They will return your love fully.
If she is not your only family, its ok. Move on.
Never throw yourself at someone else's feet and ask for their love. Begging gets you alms, not love.
Do not tell her anything for the next 10-15 times. She will ask you whats wrong. If she doesn't, you let it go too. Focus on yourself.
2006-11-23 08:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by sadsmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do about how your aunt treats you. She may be one who doesn't know how to say I love you or she may just have other things on her mind and is not thinking about how she is hurting you. In any event, the best thing you can do is to just continue to show her love and pray for her asking God to change her heart. Prayer changes things.
2006-11-23 08:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Lady; some people do not show their feelings in public. Could also be with her new baby she has her mind on that fact. Try asking your parents.
Good Luck.
2006-11-23 08:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep letting her know that you love her. Some people don't know how to show their love, some people have to be taught that showing love is important. A lot of men lose their women because they don't know how to show it. Good luck!!!
2006-11-23 08:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How yung are you?
Your aunt is pobably preoccupied with the stress of a new baby and all, jus give her time,
2006-11-23 08:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is probably just her personality hun. she has prob. always been a real hard person to get close to. and it is nothing you have done but just the type of person she may be. firm and stern hard to the core of her soul!
2006-11-23 09:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that she needs to love you cuz you love her stick up to her!!!! Good Luck
2006-11-23 08:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋