2006-11-23 08:01:35 · 22 answers · asked by bignerd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Feck ya. It's a major turn off. Wah.
2006-11-23 08:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm guessing you are asking about this behavior being applied to relationships and not to society in general? As to how it affects men in a relationship? I'll go with that assumption for now. My sister has the same thought. My answer is a big yes! We are taught to maintain objectivity and tact when we enter a classroom or a job so why should any less be accepted in a relationship? I feel relationships require more tact than a random encounter because the nature of relationships themselves require work if it is to remain good. Letting our emotions get the best of us can blind us from the issue at hand; and while most of put up our best to tolerate and manage our loved-ones emotions, they can, at the same time, bypass the problem at hand an create a whole separate and frustrating one-that being that he or she is emotionally overreacting. After awhile this can kill a relationship. I'm not saying to be void of emotion but rather that you have a responsibility to mange them as much as others have a responsibility to adhere to them when they are relevant. I see my sister using her "emotions" as a euphemism for "manipulation" a lot of the time. Men and women alike can find this very annoying in a relationship. So yes, it is a turn-off!
2006-11-23 16:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer_weisz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some maybe. For some no. If you are a strong, independent woman it can be a turn of for some men too, because they dont feel needed. Dont worry about it. I heard the other way around that I am too strong and independent. Either way you do it its not right. You just have to meet a person that suits you thats it. ;-)
And I think the guys in here mixup emotional with insecure.
And its best not to get in these deep comversations with men anyway. Because they will base it on their past experience with the women they had. When women mean emotional it doesnt necessarily mean cry over everything!!!!
2006-11-23 16:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by aka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional how?
If it's negative emotions, then that's self explanatory. If it's an "in your face" type of emotional, then that can get annoying fast, even a little scary when it catches you by surprise. If it's "over the top" emotional, where you don't just cry or laugh but do it loudly and for prolong periods of time, that can get to be nerve-wracking. If you're constantly happy, happy, happy no matter what the situation is, then that can seem to be rather weird. If you make a big deal out of every little thing, then the really important things that come along won't seem that important to others when you make a big deal about them as well, because they just get lost with the rest.
2006-11-23 16:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no, actually an emotional person is a needy person, and some people like a needy mate. It's like being attracted to a puppy, there's that need to make it all better for them. Watch out if you should ever become your own person while being with them though as things will change fast and you'll lose them.
2006-11-23 16:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person(s) you are with. For me, being over-emotional is a major turn off.
2006-11-23 16:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by kamikaze_4021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if your emotions are all over the place
Example : You cry at the drop of a hat
You whine all the time or
You need an anger managment class
2006-11-23 16:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by CookFrNW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about this one, most people are ok until someone MAKES them that way. Like if they love some one so much and then the other person treats them like crap, they are going to be emotional.
And a person that has lots trust in every one cause they have been treated like crap is going to be emotional and needs someone that will truly care about them, if the other person don't then they are not worth having. To bad that one is cold hearted and selfish and never had anything bad happen to them.
2006-11-23 16:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It really depends on the other person if they think it is or not. Some think an emotional person is a weak person which I do not think is the case.
2006-11-23 16:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say sometimes emotional people sort of scare me. That is my problem though and not yours so be aware of how others react but being yourself.
2006-11-23 16:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No alot of people like someone in touch with their emotions it shows that sensitivity that most people lack in these days and ages!
2006-11-23 16:03:37 · answer #11 · answered by Danette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋