Why would they do this to me???

Question

Well i was dating this boy for about a month at the most but we liked eacheother for like 3 years, then on day he just breaks up with me out of no where and tells me his mom said he's to young to date(were 13 )then when i come bake to school on monday i find out that my bestfriend and him are a couple now. I fliped out, i just cant understand if he cant date then why is he dating her? I dont mean to sound stuck up or anything but she is not a very pretty girl and she already got fingerd and gave this guy a bj, so she's bascily a s.l.u.t. Its been a week and i havent talked to either one of them it hurts really bad because i was in love with him and he told me he loved me too and i was the only one for him. I guess what my question is why would they do this to me?? And dont say talk it over with my bestfriend because if i do that im going to end up beating her up so just please help im really upset..thanks

Answer 1

I don't know why they would do that, i kinda had somethin similar happen to me to, but your friend could be lying to you for some odd reason. But don't worry about it and move on you don't need all this drama with you only being 13 cause things get worse. so don't worry about relationships right now, worry about makin friends.

Answer 2

Hey hun. First of all you are only 13. You can't be in LOVE, maybe puppy love but y'all are wayyyyy too young to be getting into any serious kind of relationships. Them participating in that sexual activity at such an early age is really alarming and concerns me. They are too young and immature to engage in any such activity. At your age you should focus on grades, school, extra-curricular activities and having fun with your friends. Enjoy being young, it doesn't last long. Then you are thrown into the real world. They need to be very careful, because their behavior is how STD's are spread.

NEVER degrade yourself or compromise your morals or beliefs for a guy. This guy obviously only wanted one thing, and that's what she was able to give, unlike you. You don't want to be like that, as soon as he is done using her for his own selfishness, he will dump her butt and move on to another new girl. Stay strong and may God bless you..you deserve a better guy--and a better best friend! :)

And dear, please change your username..sexybaby? you got the baby part right, you are only 13! How about something a little less provocative for your username?

Answer 3

You are absolutely right, no use to talk it over with her, because she is not worth a friend's butt.

So why did it happen? Well, unfortunately 99.9% of men become obsessed with sex when they are 13 (or younger these days), and would rather go for girls who will give them booty. Basically, they are pretty shallow, and are often not as serious as the girl in the relationship. Your ex best friend is actually burning her bridges, cause us gals tend to fall in love when handing out them goodies to one guy all the time. He is enjoying experimenting, but will tire of her eventually, and she will be left all alone, with no friends to go to.

I suggest you make new friends, and forget about this miserable pair, they ar just not worth your precious time and energy. It is a good idea for you to abstain from having sex or giving anything to a guy for the next 5 or 6 years for the above mentioned reasons. (You are anyway too young for that, but I think you know that).

In good time, you wil meet a man who forms part of that 0.1% and you will be happy with him.

Answer 4

OK , first , when i was 13 i wanted nothing more then to date the girl that would go the extra distance ( Put out) If she well go that far , she will go further sooner or later.. When your young its all about getting some. Women want love and men want sex. I can say i don't know anyone who is still with anyone they met when they are 13... Its the time or learning , about love , sex, and there body..

Answer 5

Being thirteen just sucks.
I think if you read your question out loud you may have already answered it for yourself. Your friend may not be the friend you thought she was, but look at how you wrote about her. You may have written those things out of anger, but people can sense what you really think about them. If she is what you say she is, chances are she has other problems and feels that she has to do these things in order to be loved. If you care about your friend, simply look very carefully at what is going on in her life. You do not have to like what she did, but understanding why she did it may make YOU feel better and realize that it is not an attack on you. As for the guy, he may just be using her and that is very sad. I hope things work out for you all. It is very hard to understand at any age that things may not always be about you and that there is always a bigger picture

Answer 6

okay she really not your friend more like your enemy.But I would ay forget about that guy if he's going to tell you a lie to go out with your best friend then he's not worth your time.Think of i this way your so called friend showed you who your ex really was.You wouldn't want to be with somene like him especially now that she gave him a bj and everything.Guys at the age are all the same very few are not sexually based if you know what I mean.So the real reason he probably broke up with you is because you didn't give him what he wanted(SEX).Which there is nothiing wrong with being a virgin Im a virgin and proud of it.Everybody now days is all about sex.Well I think if you are ging t d it at all it should be for LOVE!

Answer 7

Your learning you lessons early in life which is a good thing! Boys, or Guys have a tendency to lie to avoid conflict-it may be true or a lie that his mother does not want him to date-but he is willing to either lie to you about it-or to date this other girl behind his mothers back-Either way he isn't very trust worthy-like most young guys he will say anything to avoid arguments and to get what he wants. You need to find a boy who will be honest with you and his mother-if he likes girls like your friend then he probably doesn't have very good judgment either-I know you really like him-but you don't want to waste your time on someone who isn't going to treat you right! Best Wishes!

Answer 8

13 umm, sounds like your a little to young to be dating anyway, but your not my child. To help answer this question. It sounds like he takes trash instead of class. You sound like a classy girl, and stay that way. Your best friend sounds like she'sheading down S.L.U.T. ROW. Boys like to choose the sluts before they choose the good girls. With friends like that, who need enemies. She's not a real friend, and he's too young to know what classy girls are all about. You move on with your life. Baby your still young and you prbably will experience this situation again once you get older. Leave him alone and if you choose to continue your friendship with the loose goose, then I suggest you feed her with a long handle spoon. Please keep your little boyfriends away from her before you have to put your foot in her BEHIND. :)

Answer 9

I SO don't miss teenage drama. But neither of them are worth your time. Your 13, it's not real love, move on. Enjoy being young before you get into all that complicated relationship BS, trust me, it gets ALOT worse. She was never a true friend if she went out with your ex, and he lied to you because he didn't want to date YOU anymore. Easy as that, sorry to put it so bluntly. But move on, enjoy being single!!!!

Answer 10

how can we help you? You should move on, that guy didn't like you, and yeah he was a coward for not being honest w/ you, but C'mon, you're both 13 year olds, little kids! wut do you know bout relationships, thatz disgusting, when you're 13 relationships don't matter, you're just experimenting and stuff, who gives if a dude don't like you, then that means you're not hot! yet, just wait till you get older, once you're like 17 or 19 then you should worry bout relationships, right now worry bout school and all that, screw what others think!