why do people look at me even if I look normal? why??

Question

it happens to me all the time. when i was walking in the school canteen, i feel just like everybody is looking at me and i cannot be confident because of this.
and i like wearing black clothes, the other students wearing colourful clothes, jeans, trousers etc.
why are they looking at me or why do i feel like that??
and how can i solve this??

Answer 1

Sweetness, what you're missing is confidence in your own self. No one can give it to you; it's the sort of thing you have to gain by yourself. Keep telling yourself that you're fine, that people are just "looking" and not judging. Look in the mirror at yourself and tell yourself that you are fine, you are marvelous, wonderous, whatever just so long as you beleive it. I was self-concious in high school too and that's what I did. I figured I could let other people knock down my self-confidence or I that I wouldn't. I opted for wouldn't. Good luck and Blesings.

Answer 2

Newsflash.

If you are anywhere where there are other people someone is always looking at you. Get used to it. There is nothing you can do about it short of becoming a hermit and never being around other people again for the rest of your life.

Answer 3

You're being a little paranoid. I get that feeling too sometimes. Screw what they think. Do what you want, or you'll never be happy. Only you can judge yourself. No one else can do that.

Answer 4

the color black has always been negative.and mysterious..it's a lifestyle that people have grown to say is bad.. and you get what you get ..... be yourselfe but bbe happy and respectful.

Answer 5

They just don't understand your choice of wardrobe & people are afraid of what they don't understand .

Answer 6

inferiority complex

Answer 7

it could be because u are different

Answer 8

your zipper is open