I'm kinda still in the closet and I told a few people. I'm bi/bicurious and people at my school are very homophobic/biphobic.
2006-11-23 05:27:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Coming out is a continuous process. Soon most of your friends acquaintances will know, then it's not an issue... but every once in a while you'll be faceed with that weird situation where you have to come out again!
People somehow seem to know I'm gay... they were telling me I was gay before I knew what gay was!!! Not that I'm a flamer or anything! Somehow it just comes through. It makes it a little easier!
Most people are cool. You shouldn't run into too many problems!
The whole experience of being gay I recently learned is for everyone to learn tolerance! That's putting a spiritual spin on the whole situation! If you look at it that way, it gives you a sense of purpose!
Gregory
2006-11-23 05:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. it relatively is an instinct that determines a sexual selection. Gender orientation is an instinct besides. i exchange into raised in a position the place boys and ladies are equivalent, and that i had by no skill heard or examine something approximately what the 'T' in 'LGBT' stood for. on the different hand, I knew that I ought to have been male.
2016-10-12 23:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very comfortable with others knowing that I'm gay. The only people who don't know are the relatives on my late father's side of the family. They're knee-deep in the Bible, and I don't see them hardly ever, so I haven't made it a priority that they know I'm attracted to other men. However, if we were in a room together for some reason and they started with homophobic remarks, I would feel obligated to "represent" and defend my queer brothers and sisters.
2006-11-23 09:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only tell people I feel comfortable with and if they can't handle the fact that I am gay then I say '_ _ _ _' then, who needs then!
If people can't like me for who and what I am (in other words a gay male) then for get them, who needs them, not me that's for sure! Where I work a lot of people don't talk to me (mostly str8 guys) and I am sure it is because they know I am gay and they are a bunch of homophobes and don't want to talk to a gay guy! I don't care about them because there are also lots of people where I work that love me for who I am and love me the way I am - I have to say tho that it is mostly the women. Most str8 guys are just afraid that gay guys just want to get into their pants (kind of the way I guess str8 women feel about str8 guys) but that is just not true unless one is sexually attracted to the other guy that is! Unless he is HOT!!! hehe *hugs* JAC<
2006-11-23 05:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by jackaboo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda depends on who i'm talking to. I am very open but sometimes thats not always a good thing. I am bie. I;m trying to stop cause i really like this guy! He means a lot to me!
Well write back
2006-11-23 05:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by pop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I defy all labels placed upon me, this is why I am my own person, and seek no ones appoval. Do your own thing, I say, and let others eat your dust! Sexuality has nothing to do with the person on the inside. Be free, young heart!
2006-11-23 05:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only my family and very close friends know who I sleep with. If some one asks I have no problem telling them it's none of there bussiness. Who I sleep with is not a public matter.
2006-11-23 05:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by aza_424 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a lesbian and i came out a year ago and i feel more comfortable telling people i guess it will take time for you to feel comfortable about it. just do it and u will feel alot better about doing it.
2006-11-23 05:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who those persons are - but better the less that you tell people. No need to broadcast it. keep it private.
2006-11-23 05:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets easier as you get older. I am completely out now. I figure if somebody doesn't like me for being gay, then we don't have to be friends. They can go their way and I can go mine.
2006-11-23 05:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by J S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋