he says he is building a future with me but when i find that his emails to other women are so detail with beautiful words and what i recieve is 'to the point' one liners, and he has told me he was to busy to really write to me.
how should i let him know this really is two face. what can i say to him to really get my point accross and him to get it.
2006-11-23 04:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by wanted 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Are you for real???
Let me tell you! If you feel your being lied to! then Dump his azz! there are losts of men out there! And some pretty damn good ones too! Sounds to me like The guy in question is not only disrespectfull, decetfull, but is probably inexperianced with women also! Remember!
Once a cheat! Always a cheat! Dump him!
2006-11-23 20:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by patrick s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that this has happened to you. something like this has happened to me before but lm not go into detail about that......
dont say anything at first, see if this continues. if it does approach him calmly, dont let him know that this has upset you. then tell him that you dont appreciate it and that it needs to stop. if it doesnt stop leave him and if he asked why tell him that you cant trust him because he could be cheating on you or he has thought about it.
I really hope you dont get hurt like the many women that do because their boyfriends have cheated on them.I wish you the best
hope this helps.
2006-11-23 11:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by schoolchic_101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are very few good men out there, sad to say, and this sounds like one of the many that aren't. Having a boyfriend is so overrated, until you watch commercials with people kissing and getting engagement rings...but anyway...just tell him you aren't comfortable with this and LEAVE HIM if he keeps it up. He should have more respect for you!
2006-11-23 04:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has no time to email you, then he is having affairs with others and you need to dump this cheater right now.
Change your email address and go find a guy that will appreciate you for what you are...
Bet he will get the message real fast....
Serves him right....
2006-11-23 04:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Angell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's taking you for granted. When you are feeling calm (or as calm as you can feel about it) ask him about it. Tell him, without getting angry or judgemental if you can, how you are feeling, listen to what he has to say about it. Communication is the key to a sucessful relationship but screaming and shouting is rarely productive.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 04:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if HE would like IF other Men emailed you? then go and start chatting.. but, leave that you all ready have a boy Friend out. that will make HIM see your point.
2006-11-23 04:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just confront him and tell him that you don't appreciate being lied to and his two faced, cheating ways.
2006-11-23 04:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it if he doesnt think your right or doent agree with you of what he is doing wrong leave him it might be for thr best
2006-11-23 04:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Alexa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He's just an inch away from cheating on you (if he hasn't already).
2006-11-23 04:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1= disconnect inter-net....
2= he is cheating on you..LEAVE HIM..
2006-11-23 04:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋