i made a HUGE mistake and im after loosing a really sweet, funny, kind guy as a friend. we met over the internet and at first we were fine but i acused him of something and now he hates me. i feel really bad. i was goin to delete my address to just 4gt him completly but i really dont wanna do that.....he's too nice. i really wanna tell him that im sorry but he wont listen to me............well he listened but he didnt take it in. i know your probably thinkin that i should just let it go but i really dont wanna do that until im sure theres no hope. what should i do????
2006-11-23 04:26:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Send him an email, pour your heart out to him and tell him what you've done, why you've done it and how sorry you are for doing it. Also tell him that you do not want to loose him as a friend and would like to continue with this friendship, and then put the ball in his court. If after pouring your heart out to him still does nothing then he wasn't a real friend to begin with and is not worth pursuing. Good luck.
2006-11-23 04:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by shell7024 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's not a lot that you can do right now, except give him space. Leave things as they are for now and in a week or so time email or ring him or text him and say that you are sorry. Then leave it a few days and send him an email saying that you hate the fact that the two of you are no longer friends and while you appreciate why he is angry with you. You miss him and you would like it if the two of you could be friends again. That is all you can do. It is then up to him
2006-11-23 15:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him exactly how u really feel and be honest with him show that u really are sorry let him know and if he still doesnt take it in then u end it like this just say i am so sorry and i know i made a mistake and i hope u will forgive me and i promise it wont happen again and then let it blow over then if he decides to forgive u then yall was meant to be friends.
2006-11-23 13:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am sorry that your friendship is affected by something you said...first you must send him an email explaining that you did not mean a word of it and that your deeply sorry and would love to continue your friendship with him....then if you have his number, text him with an apology also and ask him to call you so you an explain...if he don't reply straight away then just wait till he calms down, it's clear that he's upset by what you said and he may be having problems coming to terms with it....he will forgive you if he has it in his heart to do so....hope you get a good result...good luck..........x
2006-11-23 12:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u made a mistake and everyone makes mistakes. it`s human nature. i believe most people are worth a second chance. now ur wot i`d call a good friend as ur not giving up on him. don`t be too persistent though as that might drive him away even further. here use my nappy to dry ur eyes then keep ur chin up
2006-11-23 12:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing the gravity of your accusation it is difficult to answer the question. I think the fact that you feel sorry is very healthy. I hope this works out well for you.
2006-11-23 12:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesnt want to listen then you dont seem to have much of a choice- you cant make someone be your mate
try saying sorry once more but if that doesnt work, then you will just have to face up to the fact that he doesnt want to be friends anymore.
good luck
2006-11-23 12:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter to him. Don't email or give him a ring. People are not sending letters as they would do in the past. Letters will make him accept your appology.
2006-11-23 14:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by londonlife_sophistication 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid you will have to let this one go, you have tried to say sorry, there is nothing else you can do except try again and probably be rejected , sorry
2006-11-23 12:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really will depend on what u accused him of .
but give him time, try to explain why u did it ,it might take him a while depending on how deep he feels hurt .
2006-11-23 12:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by hairy_homer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋