What could i do?
2006-11-23 04:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by matt v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well to me fighting is never the answer. you shoukd probally tell someone you trust that these guys have a problem it doesnt have to be a grown up but it should probally be someone a little bit older then you. Just to make sure there looking after you. Or just ignore them because the reason they come back to you is because they see that there gettin under your skin so just be like whatever or laugh at your self then they'll be confused.
2006-11-23 04:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 of 2 things.
You could tell someone like a teacher or your parents. But unfortunately, that may not get the bullying to stop. Well, considering the consequences of bullying nowadays, maybe the school will step up for a change.
Or, you could fight them. They may pick on you because they know you are scared and tolerate it. So fight them. Yeah, you may get your as* kicked, but you will also probably get a few good licks in. The more you fight back, the less likely they will be to bully you in the future.
Id really rather see that you try going to the school or your parents first.
2006-11-23 04:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly... the best thing that u can do... is walk away and ignore them. i was picked on a lot in elementary school until i decided in the 7th grade to not let it bother me anymore and it seriously worked. I gained so much more confidence and eventually the bullies respected me. Dont talk back, don't say anything. Just look at them like they've got something on their face because then ur showing them that u don't care. Once they think u dont care and that they can't get u upset they stop because there isn;t any point. They will have lost the power over u. Trust me. I've learned from experience. Just dont fight them. Its the most immature way to deal with this.
2006-11-23 04:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to fight the bullies that's very immature. Handle it some other way so you or the bullies don't get hurt. Should probably discuss this with your parents even if you might be embarrassed. Respect yourself!!
2006-11-23 05:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could you do? Well, you should not fight with them, because it will be worse. Just try and ignore them. If that doesnt work, try to tell them this: "Listen, I do not want to be bothered anymore by you guys. Why don't you find another one to bother? Why me? Why not try on being friends?" If that doesnt work, then talk to thei teachers and parents and tell them to get them suspended from school.
Try also ignoring them. That way, they are going to think: "Ahh...this boy doesnt listen to us. Let's go bother some other idiot." Because the ONLY thing they want is to bother you and make you feel bad. They just wanna get ur attention. So, ignore them, and DO NOT listen to them. Hope this helps!
2006-11-23 05:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Lisamaria. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know ? My old man always said that if I would just stand up to the bullys they would back down !
NOT !
They knew that I couldn't whip them, and just preceded to kick my butt.
My solution ?
I made real good friends with the biggest baddest guys in the School ! That fixed it better than old dads advice ever did !
2006-11-23 04:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Minister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one that is bullying you the most and just launch at him the next time he tries something.
Be pre-emptive, and insist on a 'fair' fight if they want to meet you afterwards.
Get it over-and-done-with. It's just a cloud hanging over your head. Whether you 'win' or 'lose' doesn't really matter. At least it will be over with.
2006-11-23 04:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing growing up and the best advice I can give is to stand up for yourself. A lot of people will say not to fight but standing up to them is your best bet. Yeah, if you beat up one or two of them they might get their friends and come after you, but I doubt it. Once they know that you wont back down from them they will leave you alone. They are doing it becasue they think its funny to see you get scared and such when they harass you. If you stand up for yourself they will leave you alone.
2006-11-23 04:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by John W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't do this but your best bet is go to the principle and tell her or him what is going on. Plus u might want to find some big guy friends to hang with until this blows over. Talk to your parents to and see what they say.Good luck
2006-11-23 04:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them, and avoid them. If you fight with them at school, you'll get kicked out and possibly arrested.
If they are threatening you, tell the authorities... whether that be your school officials or calling the cops.
2006-11-23 04:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋